"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Oh Yeah!! Good Few Newbie DJ days!

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Hey, just thought id make a quick post saying thanks to the dj site.

My last three days have been awesome.

Friday nite- Turned down a chick i dirty danced with the weekend before cause it was just a one night thing. I then continued to have heaps of fun at a party.

Sat/Sat nite- Stayed at the house where the party from friday nite was with one of my friends, his gf, and a chick who really hurt me a while ago and caused me to find the dj site. Now after learning so much from the dj site i slept next to her hugging her all nite and felt real close to her.

Sun- Still cosy with the chik from sat and went home (nothing special)

Mon- Went to werk. Lots of people there because we doing stocktake. 2 people there especially, 1 whom i got with at a party about 2 months ago and another whom i got sum heavy pashing from about 1 month ago.
This werks really really well for me cause both are friends and could have sum talking going on between them, possibly competing if im lucky. I actually saw them looking at me and wispering but i think they were just teasing :p

Tuesday- Werk again, but only one of the chicks from monday are there, but today shes acting real friendly and playful and even goes right out of her way to place her hand on my back and tell me that shes going and she'll see me around sum time.

I know to alot of dj's this may not sound like much but for me, a guy whos learnt from this site and turned his life completely around in maybe 4 months, this is awesome.
Not only that but this is just 5 days.

Thanks heaps!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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