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went out and got really really wasted in a night club. i do not remember much of it but i have a big hater club now. cut a long story short i have pissed of a big group of girls and cant remember what i said. i confronted them about it today but they wouldnt tell me what im supposed to have said or done. if they dont tell me then i cant appologise but they dont like me now (boo hoo) i feel bad cuz i dunno what i did but should we DJs actually care what woman think or if they hate us? or is my situation different as its not to do about dating or anything like that.
 

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well to be honest, haha, you shouldnt care....however, lets look at this situation.

You were drunk, so you probably were loud and having a very great time.

You were around some women, so you probably got some good kino in, because when most guys get drunk, they also gain a lot of courage to go get girls and stuff.

Overall, you didnt kill anybody. Overall, you didnt steal anybodys money or kick anybodys azz, so you have nothing to apologize for.

Most times, when women find loud and indifferent men attractive, they get a little ashamed to admit it, and just get mad just because it seems like that right thing to do.

Keep getting women, and make sure you get some right in front of them, because deep down inside, they are a little turned on by your behavior.
 

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Originally posted by duttylove
went out and got really really wasted in a night club. i do not remember much of it but i have a big hater club now. cut a long story short i have pissed of a big group of girls and cant remember what i said. i confronted them about it today but they wouldnt tell me what im supposed to have said or done. if they dont tell me then i cant appologise but they dont like me now (boo hoo) i feel bad cuz i dunno what i did but should we DJs actually care what woman think or if they hate us? or is my situation different as its not to do about dating or anything like that.
This is one of those situations that men deal with by shrugging their shoulders and saying "fvck it."

Next time don't get so damned drunk. It may seem like fun at the time, but (and I know from personal experience) you're sloppy when you're drunk, and it keeps you from doing what you want to do.
 
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