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So little confused here....

Went out with a friend of mine to play pool and drinks, she and I been friends for awhile but always do some form of flirting but nothing has happened. So tonight after few drinks she's doing lots of kino, at one point basically sitting in my lap. So I think to myself "fvck it" go in for the kiss. She starts to bite my lip and kiss for a second. I can tell she was surprised. At this point I was pretty drunk and it was getting late.

She didn't really fully reciprocate so I left it alone. Dropped her off she had to work early. Then she texts me, I put my lips on her and that I'm a slut LOL. Like putting your ass on me, kino, sitting in my lap, what did she expect me to do?? Weird. We always do playful flirting but I'm at the point where I'm not some non physical bf to her. What u guys think?
 

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Nn877 said:
I'm at the point where I'm not some non physical bf to her.
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She sees you only as a friend what you did surprised her that is why she didn't reciprocate. Nothing to feel confused about at all.
 
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She does have a bf supposedly, always off and on. But why not push me away turn her head, etc. biting my lip?

Maybe you're right, it was a random act on my part and I basically did it to squash the friendzone. I noticed I started to be become attracted to her and I'm not gna be her orbiter so made a bold move. At least now I know.
 
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