"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NewbieJuanKenobi

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Is it even worth going after a girl that wont' let go of her ex? She just can't get him out of her head. If it is worth the effort, what's the best route of action?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I suggest turning 180 degrees from her, and start SPRINTING....


No, you want no part of her emotional rollercoaster. She'll drag you and your heart through the muck, and then she'll be your friend for all your help....You'll be back here shooting profanity all over the place about why and how you got used...Save yourself the pain and find a girl emotionally ready to deal with you...
 
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thanks, i figured that would be the best thing but i still have some AFC tendancies, and she's like a high 8 so i second guessed myself on that move
 
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Being attracted to her is something you can't help. There's no harm in that. Where you run into problems is when you are aware of the pain you're going to inevitably suffer when dealing with a chick like this but you STILL choose to dive headfirst into it because of some perceived 'payoff' (fvcking her, loving her, etc.) IN other words, leave her alone. You know it's bad news.

But instead of ignoring it all together...try to figure out why this girl has so much of an impact on you. What is it about her? I think by examining this you'll see that a) she's mortal and shouldn't have the power to drag you headfirst against your will, and b) she's showing you a little bit of yourself in contrast.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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