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Observations of first dates TV show

Gamisch

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I would like your opinion about the TV show first dates.

To me its mind boggling, that two people are matched with all this data and parameters, but at the end 90 % of the time the woman still rejects the man.

Imo it's because women really hope to find " the one" , whereas men "just want a gf". Last episode I watched the guy was like " she has dark hair totally my type". How can a man determine that just by one look?

Besides that, I think food and eating exposes a man too fast and the date take too long. Too often I see two people vibing,laughing ect but at the end the woman 90% of the time rejects him. Fron age 20 to 50.

What do you think? Despite all these people were matched to succeed, does this extremely high failure rate represents the real dating world?
 

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