Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Objective: The Soul Mate/Quality Woman Peace Treaty!

Julius_Seizeher

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I have signed many peace treaties in my day, and seen even more.

But if conditions change, would I hesitate to bring my army across the river because of a now-defunct peace treaty?

This is why I so hesitate to marry. When the relevance of the commitment wanes, what else is there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jophil28

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Victory Unlimited said:
Soldiers...It's really very simple:

When your woman is your ally, she upholds her end of the commitment.

But when that same woman becomse you enemy, she has broken that commitment and you MUST treat her and the situation accordingly, for the sake of your own best interest.


Peace...one day.


VU
The General has spoken once again.

One of the ways that rad. feminism partially succeeded in destroying male power was by wrecking marriages from the inside, and they did this in the same way that most revolutions started - by convincing the so-called 'oppressed' that the dominant class are abusive and evil.
Then the 'oppressed' were convinced that they needed to withdraw their commitment to, and compliance with the 'boss's' dictates. In return for the effort and risks involved, the 'oppressed' were promised all the power - 'people power' was the chant. That was quickly ungraded to "girl power" ..and we all know the rest of this story...> 50% divorce rate with 70% initiated by women.

AS GEN VU said.. a successful relationship demands commitment which REQUIRES mutual compliance to mutual goals.
 

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NICE POST VICTORY:up:
 
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