"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obese mother trucker

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Heres the situation. Im a senior in a small highschool in the midwest and all up until the last few months Ive been this goofy f*cking fat kid. Oh yeah I was one chubby mo fo. Now with the help of the weight room and this here sight Ive got a nice physique and Have turned that goofy shiznit into what we here like to call charm. Ive had this college girlfriend from out of city for the last couple of years. Recently I decided to ditch the girl and try my options elsewhere. Ya see the girls here at my high school have still got that pre- conceived notion that Im still that goofy obese mother trucker. Although Im starting to notice results Im looking for some advice to speed up the process and have the ditch the their ideas of the old trav. How does one achieve this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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trav_trav

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yo fella the chub is gone. im one fit trav now. what i be asking is how do i get the girl to dith their old ideas of that wierd fat kid and see the new handsome charming boy.
 

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You're in HS, so although your rep is deep rooted you can count on word to spread fast that you've changed your ways.

I would try to pick out a few girls who are moderately popular and focus on them. Once you start to win a few over and they talk with your friends, you can win em all. High school girls are like dominoes, when one goes for something all the rest follow.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was in the same position as you once, all the girls realised i had changed once they saw me with my shirt off at the swimming carnival.
 
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