"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi all, I just thought that referring to people as AFC's seems a little degrading, what are your thoughts on using the acronym "NYe" being "Not yet enlightened"? Just a question, as I think most of the wise ones here, are actually enlightened & those that are not (including me), need to learn to be...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BEING an afc is a little degrading so the title is apt. Either you rise above or stay below, but don't want people to be all PC about it. This is a mens forum. if you can't take real talk, you should be on love shack.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scorpio13c said:
Hi all, I just thought that referring to people as AFC's seems a little degrading, what are your thoughts on using the acronym "NYe" being "Not yet enlightened"? Just a question, as I think most of the wise ones here, are actually enlightened & those that are not (including me), need to learn to be...
I could not think of anything else more inane and pointless to be concerned about if I tried.... :kick:
 

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Warrior74 said:
BEING an afc is a little degrading so the title is apt. Either you rise above or stay below, but don't want people to be all PC about it. This is a mens forum. if you can't take real talk, you should be on love shack.
Thanks for you input, like I said, just a thought.. I am a guy btw, just one who is looking for wisdom from you guys.. & I have posted on LS. I guess that makes me less than a man?
 

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Scorpio13c said:
Thanks for you input, like I said, just a thought.. I am a guy btw, just one who is looking for wisdom from you guys.. & I have posted on LS. I guess that makes me less than a man?
Only if you think it does.
 
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