Nyc | SoSuave Discussion Forum

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Junkyard

Don Juan

Jul 13, 2010

Sup fellas,

After a brief dating hiatus im back on the scene ready to tear it up. Im asian, 31 (look 25), and i'm intermediate and always looking to learn from others. Need some reliable wings (just need to be social, dress well, and know how to have fun). I mainly go out on weekends, but occasionally i'll do weekdays as well. No day gaming cause its too damn hot. I'm mainly into latinas, but white girls as well. Shoot me a pm.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.