"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Number game that a classmate taught me

Alex DeLarge

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Hey guys, my classmate taught me this number game. I feel like this can be incredibly beneficial to game if you make up some "chick crack" kind of fluff before administering the number game.

(for those unfamiliar with "chick crack".. It's stuff like astrology, magic, and other new agey stuff.. Talked about in "The Game" by Neil Strauss.)

Think of a number.. Any number.
Now add 2 to the number.
Now multiply by 3.
Now subtract by 6.
Now divide by 3.

That is your number.

This would be great with building rapport. This is a social proof building technique in context with the Mystery Method. Just say to the girl before going about the game..

You: "Hey what do you think about magic? Do you think it exists?"
Her: "Yes" or "No"
You: "Well I do, and I know I can guess any number that you're thinking of."
Her: "Oh really?"
You: "Yeah, guess a number"
Her: "Okay I have it, now what?"


*Go through the sequence listed above

Her: "Oh my god! How did you do that!?!"
You: (Looking into her eyes) "I could just tell."
*Social proof!

**Also, this trick only works with whole numbers. I don't think most people would think of a negative number or a fraction when you ask them to do this trick though. Most likely just in the 1-100 range.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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