"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now I Know Why MYSTERY Picks Up Hot Babes

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Mystery picks up and fvcks a lot of hot babes and the truth is that his Mystery Method has very little to do with this.

The reasons of his success with the hot babes is because he does not care about what they think about him.

In appearance Mystery is more on the good looking side, 20% of all dudes are better looking than him and 80% are uglier than him.

This aside he is hardly the conventional type of romantic hero that you would expect would attract the majority of the hottest babes.

Mystery does not conform to any type of dress codes, he couldn't give a fvck what he wears, regardless of if he is attired in a business type suit, shorts and a t-shirt, or a dirty pair of tracksuit pants, his persona remains exactly the same.

It doesn't bother him how he is dressed, how scruffy his hair is or anything else.

Mystery doesn't take a backward step when it comes to approaching the hottest babes, he couldn't give a fvck if one particular hot babe rejected his advances, he will just shrug it off and immediately after approach another one until he gets what he is after.

Dudes don't get to fvck hot babes because they are too frightened to approach them and too frightened of being rejected by them if they have worked up the courage to approach one.

Not only this but many dudes focus all of their attention on the one special hot babe in an environment where there is many of them, by doing this they are by ignoring every other hot babe making the one hot babe whom they desire the Prize as she is the only one that they are paying any attention to.

Mystery does not only focus on the one special hot babe, he goes from one to another, not worrying what he says or does whilst he is conversing with them.

Fear of losing equates to almost certain defeat in any type of sport, it is the same with picking up hot babes, if you are frightened about what they think about you then they are not going to be attracted to you.

The way I see it a Dude a Cat an Elephant an Old Lady and a Hot Babe have to all be treated exactly the same, if you are bold and honest with all of these various types of creatures then they will respond to you in a positive way, if you are frightened to approach them they won't want anything to do with you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Now I know why MYSERY picks up hot babes"

no you don't
 

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onthepath said:
Everything he talked about in that link is the basics of pickup. He didn't even really say anything pertaining to Mystery Method itself. Peacocking is his thing, but whatever.

Anyway, Conan just did his job and got the laughs, but he made Mystery sound like an idiot. Oh well. That's not the place to win over anyone anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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