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so lets make a long story short. Us men we look for IOI's and signs that a girl likes us and we should make our move. but sometimes with some slight reservation you may not know if the time is right.

WELL

a girl who's had a boyfriend for 2 years admitted finally after weeks of heavy talk, gratuitous flirtation and texting me at all times of the night. that she had feelings for me. and the way she said it was that she had to leave me on the night she admitted to likeing me otherwise she would have made some bad decisions.

LITERALLY 2 days later. she's engaged. (learned from a 3rd party)

so there you have it. even when a girl is about to jump on your d*ck and is literally fawning over you means absolutely nothing when you're up against an LTR.

now i may be out of the game on this one. however at some point her issue will rise again. i think she has a serious problem on her hands emotionally considering all that's happened between me and her.
 
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Beta sees GF entertaining attention from other men.
Beta slaps a ring to prevent anything from happening.
Beta wins dumbass of the week award.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Beta sees GF entertaining attention from other men.
Beta slaps a ring to prevent anything from happening.
Beta wins dumbass of the week award.
lol maybe. but he sure as hell won the day.

what's funny is that is very plausible reasoning for the sudden BOOM engagement outta nowhere. (started noticing him coming around my area and just sorta standing around watching me it felt like, used to NEVER see his face at work)

they don't even live together and just hit their 2 year. that's not the point.

my point is this girl couldn't stay away from me. she would FIND ME at work just to hang around me. park next to me, apologize for dumb crap i couldn't care less. hell she even complained that i walked to fast to my car (she wanted to slow walk/talk). for which i responded the bar was going to close at 12am and i wanted to get a drink after work.

so that leads me again to NOTHING IS GUARANTEED people. i instantly nexted her however she's pretty cool at work. so i'll keep it professional if she's willing to. otherwise we don't really need to see each other to do our jobs.
 

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so there you have it. even when a girl is about to jump on your d*ck and is literally fawning over you means absolutely nothing when you're up against an LTR.
Another way of looking at nothing is guaranteed is that even though she was in a LTR in about to be engaged she was attracted to and flirting with another guy.
 

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Hey taxes and death are a sure thing. You can count on those! In regards to this girl you mention. She has issues with boundries. You don't want a ltr with a owoman with boundry issues. She has no respect for her man or any man for that matter. All that matters is her decisions based on feelings and feelings can lie to you.

Lead your heart. Don't follow it.
 

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Listening to ANYTHING women say on the topics of sex, love, dating, relationships or romance is a huge mistake. Never listen to anything women say on these topics. Just don't.

If a woman is sexually attracted to a man and she believes he's the best deal in town.. she is f*cking him. End of story. If a woman isn't f*cking you.. it means she either isn't attracted or she is MORE attracted to someone else. Simple, simple, simple.

The biggest illusion around is the myth of female complexity. Women are not complex at all. They just lie a lot. Men are too blinded by their emotions and egos to see whats right in front of them. Another weak male belief is the myth of female innocence and morality--> The idea that women are rarely corrupt or ill intentioned.

Women exploit men when possible and they have many reasons for wanting beta faggot orbiters they have no sexual interest in around. They keep these klowns on an emotional leash.. for favors and therapy sessions... clinging to the fantasy of one day "winning her over" and f*cking her. They cling to this fantasy even as hordes of alpha men f*ck her right before his eyes.

It never rings a bell to the beta faggot that if the b!tch wanted him she would be on top of him. She knows exactly what she wants and it ain't him. All the analysis most men do is a waste of time. Women are simple. When they want you.. they f*ck you. No matter what bullsh*t mumbo-jumbo they tell you.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Listening to ANYTHING women say on the topics of sex, love, dating, relationships or romance is a huge mistake. Never listen to anything women say on these topics. Just don't.

If a woman is sexually attracted to a man and she believes he's the best deal in town.. she is f*cking him. End of story. If a woman isn't f*cking you.. it means she either isn't attracted or she is MORE attracted to someone else. Simple, simple, simple.

The biggest illusion around is the myth of female complexity. Women are not complex at all. They just lie a lot. Men are too blinded by their emotions and egos to see whats right in front of them. Another weak male belief is the myth of female innocence and morality--> The idea that women are rarely corrupt or ill intentioned.

Women exploit men when possible and they have many reasons for wanting beta faggot orbiters they have no sexual interest in around. They keep these klowns on an emotional leash.. for favors and therapy sessions... clinging to the fantasy of one day "winning her over" and f*cking her. They cling to this fantasy even as hordes of alpha men f*ck her right before his eyes.

It never rings a bell to the beta faggot that if the b!tch wanted him she would be on top of him. She knows exactly what she wants and it ain't him. All the analysis most men do is a waste of time. Women are simple. When they want you.. they f*ck you. No matter what bullsh*t mumbo-jumbo they tell you.
i agree with you man. trust me when i say though this wa beyond her saying one thing and thinking another.

i NEVER, NEVER contacted this woman first. hell when she gave me her number i didn't text her at all. not a single text. 4 weeks went by of me just smiling nodding my head in passing, shooting a quick joke about the office situation and was on my way.

it got to a point though all the sudden she was blowing me up daily, nightly. she would go into the TAC system where you ahve to log in to three different company portals to pull schedules of other employees. in different areas/floors in the two 3000 employee office buildings we work in. also you have to know their employee number.

some how she found out what my number was and was always texting me if i would work a morning shift. saying "good morning. time to come to work!"

WTF.. i never told you i was working!

her actions told me she was extremely into me to go THAT far to see when i worked. hell i told her to get in my car and that's when she told me she was into me when she leaned in on me because i was trying to show her something on my phone.

I wasn't trying to get with her in fact i was just doing my thing and she popped that on me. i never once said I NEED THIS GIRL! she came on to me and then 2 days later got engaged

through a youtube video lol.

i should point you guys to it but i don't want to cause any drama. my point in even posting this is just because a girl moves mountains to try and be next to you DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING if they're already in a committed relationship. i want that to be clear to the community here. because this is about seduction and understanding woman and relationship's in general. i felt it was a valid story to share.

i'm not broken up about this. in fact i'm cool with considering i'm 10 years older than her it would have never worked out anyway because that's way to young in my book.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Listening to ANYTHING women say on the topics of sex, love, dating, relationships or romance is a huge mistake. Never listen to anything women say on these topics. Just don't.

If a woman is sexually attracted to a man and she believes he's the best deal in town.. she is f*cking him. End of story. If a woman isn't f*cking you.. it means she either isn't attracted or she is MORE attracted to someone else. Simple, simple, simple.

The biggest illusion around is the myth of female complexity. Women are not complex at all. They just lie a lot. Men are too blinded by their emotions and egos to see whats right in front of them. Another weak male belief is the myth of female innocence and morality--> The idea that women are rarely corrupt or ill intentioned.

Women exploit men when possible and they have many reasons for wanting beta faggot orbiters they have no sexual interest in around. They keep these klowns on an emotional leash.. for favors and therapy sessions... clinging to the fantasy of one day "winning her over" and f*cking her. They cling to this fantasy even as hordes of alpha men f*ck her right before his eyes.

It never rings a bell to the beta faggot that if the b!tch wanted him she would be on top of him. She knows exactly what she wants and it ain't him. All the analysis most men do is a waste of time. Women are simple. When they want you.. they f*ck you. No matter what bullsh*t mumbo-jumbo they tell you.
Just out of fun, I will **** with you. There is no problem. In this world there is no problem. As far as problem is conerned, it is man own doing, his own wild imagination.

Now, many times, at least in a society where men has made the word slur a big time, women does not want that status. Now in the history, when there was no society, and reproducing was all in all, it would have been different; just like you mentioned, sex with the most attractive person, because this person is the most valuable.

But here, in a perverted society, where the mind has far been divided, it is all different. Even if the woman finds a man attractive, she wil still rationalize the attraction away a when her status of being accepted in the society is in danger.

In this world, this modern world, sex and reproducing is no longer important. In history it was man eat bear, man share meat with the woman he finds most attractive and for their offspring.

One surviving is the most important, for any living being, it is the surviving that is the most important. Reproducing comes second. There would be no question of reproducing if you can't survive. In this world where the soviet headmaster, the one with power is the father, the one who Ian history hunted bears. At least in the industrialized countries; the whole west can give their citizen food to survive, without any need to work. For example, in Finland they give the citizens more money to buy food, if the citizen cannot afford it with his income, so naturally the society is the most important; the headmasters who decides the laws. Can you see my point? Back then, the man who hunted the bear was most important.

So for woman and also for men, the reputation is the most important. Women will do anything to avoid the slut reputation and men will do anything to avoid the idiot, scumbag, douchbag, jerk and so on, because those people are not accepted by the society. Society wants obedient kids! Otherwise how can they dominate? They cannot dominate rebellious people, courageous people and in fact those who are very courageous and individuals are cons animated very much by the title of being an idiot, arrogant. Every man who lives for himself, for his dreams, listens to his own heart, do whatever he thinks is right rather than what others think is right, those are the people who are very much contaminated by the title of being an selfish, arrogant, douchbag. Hence the attraction of afcs. The headmaster needs people to be dominated as their followers. They don't need courageous people's, in fact they cannot dominate the courageous people. The courageous will fight, they will rebel, they will neer do anything just because someone says s. they will do thinks that thy think is right for the self. Now how can they accept being dominated? They are men.. And men dominate.

So you see the afcs very much in our modern society, because I fact they are women! Now thy might only be physically men.. But that is very superficial, deep down, in their deepest core of their being, they are women. Passive, submissive; not aggressive, dominative. They have been taught to be passive, to be dominated their whole life by the society itself! In every family, the parents want their children, small children to be obedient. No parent ever want a child who is rebellious, courageous. Every parent wants a girl as their children, because girls obey. They are passive and submissive. And in every school, the teachers teaches to be submissive and obedient. Every teacher has only one goal: to make their students quiet and listen to what the teacher has to say. To listen to what the teacher says and that is not enough. The students must accept with the teacher, he has no choice to argue, to compell; he must so ply accept whatever the teacher say is right. And in fact, every teacher fails to teach. Because everything they do is outdated. Now I the universities, you will o ly see old teachers, because they say old people knows more than then young. But we have all seen that our parents know nothing of the modern world. And the old teachers are proud of themselves. Thy never have the need to re-learn the modern world. They have the title of a professor and every person in the school accepts him. Even the people from the headmasters are happy to have someone like hi teaching their citizen. Rather I should say converting the citizens into puppies, dead puppies, submissive a. The headmaster knows everything of the reality, of the modern work, how it works and the one who knows the reality, the truth is capable if dominating the whole world himself.

There are also the priests. What are they doing? Just speaking nonsense about hell and heaven that does not even exists. Speaking to people who are fast asleep. Have you been into a crunch? Ninety nine percent point nine of the people are asleep when the priest is talking rubbish, preaching about nonsense that nobody even cares about. But the domination is there, the threat: "If you don't come to crush every Sunday, you wil be sent to hell." Any hell is better than any paradise in this whole world. Can you see any interesting people not in hell? Jesus himself is in hell. He was crucified by the Jews who were in power that time. In fact, Jesus was a daring man. He wa courageous man. He did not fear, not even crucification. He even said "Father, please forgive those innocent peole because they shall not know what thou are doing." He was a very rebellious man, an authentic courageous.

Every man who has been courageous and rebellious has been remembered. Buddha, Mohammed, hitler, Alexander the Great, paristoteles, platon, lau-tzu. And those were the people who were very much condaminated back then. Some of them might be still very recent so they are still being condaminated. But sooner or later we will worship what hitler has done to us. We wil thank him with all our flhearrlts for what he has done to us. It will take very long time, propably centuries, because we can't accept him ow. But centuries later we might realize that if hitler did not so what he did, we might not have even survived this world for this long a time. In fact, if hitler would not have pushed us to develop our technology we propably would have been in deep trouble to keep all our resident alive or even this whole earth would be very very hard to keep going If hitler did not push the development of technology.
 

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Buddha abandoned his whole kingdom; he was supposed to become the next king of a very beautiful kingdom. But he abandoned it and left the kingdom because he never felt that planning wars and killing people was his love. He went to find his love and be found eternal bliss. He became englightened. And he would have never found anything so beautiful if he would have been struggling I the place where he never wanted to be - just because it fitted the whole kingdoms idea. The whole kingdom wanted him to become the next king, everyone was happy and excited that this intelligent prince was born, he never listened to those voice. The only voice he listened was his own, and that's how he became a man that the whole world still knows and loves even after 25 centuries! And two thouasand five hinder years is not a small amount. In that time the whiole ground of the society can be changed. And what would he have become if be would have jus fought his own desires and listened to the voice of the people around him? Thousands of prince have fought their desires and become a king because their whole kingdom was pressuring the prince. Now there is nothing special but Buddha rejected the whole kingdom, went away to search for the truth for twelve years and even dare to come back to the kingdom. Everyone hated him at the time, but after a while they all loved he. He shared his eternal love for the whole kingdom. And he still is doing that, even after twenty five centuries! The whole world still knows him and at least fourth percent of the world can feel his deep love, his deep teachings, his eternal bliss that out of his deep love, he shared for the whole world to know. He would have never made such a big name for himself if he would have just remained an ordinary king.

So what im saying here is that life is not a complex thing. It is complex because we make it so. Life is perfectly beautifully otherwise it would not have been able to exists; if there was so e problem with life, it would not have worked.

Sluts and jerks are being avoided, what is there left? Afc is the answer. Have you noticed how every alpha is being very mic hated and condeminated as selfish jerks yet they are very much being loved, admired? We say that skuta are low human beings, but you know and I know that a woman who loves to have sex with an attractive man is just. Following her natural instinct and we love those women who loves to fvck! Those are the women being condeminated as sluts. They simply accepting their nature, their inner voice what the biology is telling them. And if you can make some money out of it too, then why not? Making money out of sex is not even bad, it is just normal, it would equal to havin the man feed her bears ack in the caveman days! Perfectly normal. In fact, most women fantasize about being raped! They fantasize being so deeply dominated, so deeply submissive as being raped. Most women deep down wants them. Who women does not want to be raped, to be submissive, dominated? They would not be women if thy did not want to be submissive, do inated. But the society will never accepts this. If their needs are being fulfilled through simple sex, through the things they deep down loves, who would pay the taxes to the government, who would follow their orders. Everyone e would just be blissfully happy the self as thy are. They would never ever anymore follow the orders of the society..

Ever wondered why sluts and jerks are the most condeminated people in the world? Because they are the courageous people who do everything they love doing. You might think that they are in misery but that is just your projecting your own misery. The sluts and the jerks are the most happy people in the world. And you know, the alpha deep down is a jerk who never thinks of anybody else but himself and all those hot babe tens loves to fvck the dirtiest sex possible. They have gone through all aort if ordinary sex and they no longer are satisfied unless they are ****ed so hard by a hard big long fat **** that makes them super submissive having 100 orgasm with a monster until they *** so hard they want to fvck them like that all day long. They love being sluts.

Now for the moderators, I don't like being nice if ther is no reaso to and I this case there is no reason. But out of the desire to avoid any more complications I will be nice. So here is my message, if you mind uncanny up address, if you don't mind it is good. But tell me the real reason for banning me. I never got the reason until I was already banned, not even a warning. How am I supposed to know what I did wrong? And I asked for the forum rules multiple times, you still never gave it and agai. Until I wa alread banned, then you made the forum rules? What is the point anymore? A wise reasonable conclusion would have been creating the rules before I was. Anne's so I could have k own them and avoid breaking them, but you did the complete opposite. You made the forum rules after banning me? How is rhat a wise conclusion? Now you banned me an left me a message that I was hurting people's feelings. You are right, it seems like they did feel hurt reading my post, but it was their own fault. They could have simply ignored. And at least half of the people loved what I was writing here. Many of them even wrote me personal messages saying how they love reading writings. They even said that it feels like an art reading my post and they are right. My writings are in fact arts!

So here in front of me and everyone, please make it clear that where've I am allowed to be here and you unban my up address because it is very hard to write via phone, there is much mistakes that I don't realize until later in the writing and I hate being misunderstood.. So either love me here or ban everyone whoever hurts anyone's feelings, without any warnings that the personas insulted someone. Many times we are not even aware that we are hurting someone, otherwise as human beings there would e compassion and sympathy. No one really wants to see anybody suffering. All the afcs are suffering and we are here to help them with our heart, but we don't always realize that we hurt hem very much, but it is not always bad to hurt. We hurt them so that they become stronger.

And remember to leave those people you ban without a warning a message also. Because hat will at least give them some clarity, even tough it would be too late already. Otherwise they might be puzzled for their whole life.
 

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cfdagola said:
so lets make a long story short. Us men we look for IOI's and signs that a girl likes us and we should make our move. but sometimes with some slight reservation you may not know if the time is right.

WELL

a girl who's had a boyfriend for 2 years admitted finally after weeks of heavy talk, gratuitous flirtation and texting me at all times of the night. that she had feelings for me. and the way she said it was that she had to leave me on the night she admitted to likeing me otherwise she would have made some bad decisions.

LITERALLY 2 days later. she's engaged. (learned from a 3rd party)

so there you have it. even when a girl is about to jump on your d*ck and is literally fawning over you means absolutely nothing when you're up against an LTR.

now i may be out of the game on this one. however at some point her issue will rise again. i think she has a serious problem on her hands emotionally considering all that's happened between me and her.
She doesn't have a serious problem emotionally. She's a woman, she got her ego fix from you and moved on. Guys get confused about this, they think a girl owes them something because they say a few lovey dovey words in an email.

What a girl says means nothing. What you have done in the past for her means nothing. How much money you spent on her and invested in her means nothing. You are all an ego fix, improve her position with what she really cares about.

Remember the scene in Eyes Wide Shut? Nicole Kidman tells Tom Cruise she would give up EVERYTHING, the hot husband, the kid, the mansion, the car, her whole future just to sleep with a hot guy for one night.
 

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She doesn't have a serious problem emotionally. She's a woman, she got her ego fix from you and moved on. Guys get confused about this, they think a girl owes them something because they say a few lovey dovey words in an email.

What a girl says means nothing. What you have done in the past for her means nothing. How much money you spent on her and invested in her means nothing. You are all an ego fix, improve her position with what she really cares about.

Remember the scene in Eyes Wide Shut? Nicole Kidman tells Tom Cruise she would give up EVERYTHING, the hot husband, the kid, the mansion, the car, her whole future just to sleep with a hot guy for one night.
but i didn't DO anything

i think that's what's being lost here.

i LITERALLY did nothing.. what i did amounted to me standing on the catchers mound and her throwing me fast balls.

there was not a single day that i would text/call or even say hi to her first. most of the time my entire shift would go by and she'll text me saying you coming to work? i'm already at work! i just didn't feel like saying anything to you. that was 90% of the time.

it got to a point where it was hard to ignore her because she was always in places she didn't need to be.

i tried and said literally nothing other than cracked a joke a few times and made everybody laugh. that's all. and from that she gravitated towards me like a moth to a flame. so i was like well screw it if she's just going to give me the ass. then i'll go for a ride.

i always thought she was cute/hot so maybe a 7 on the scale and was like yeah i'd hit that. nothing more. the only thing i don't get out of this situation is seeing her naked, i was always curious what she would look like.

THAT'S IT. lol.
 

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This is a tough situation. I had a similar situation at work. This chick would email and text out if the blue, she bought me a cake for my birthday and them drunkenly came on to me at the work Christmas party. All with very little encouragement from me.
When I eventually tried to escalate, she backed off and then I found out she'd been fvcking another guy at work the whole time.
I went ghost on her but eventually she wore me down and I pounded her a couple of times.
My point is that yes, women in relationships will often test the waters with other men for any number of reasons. Most likely as an ego boost or they're craving the sort of romantic attention lacking with their BF.
Either way, you did well not to get emotionally invested and gained a shytload of experience. Good report.
 

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She would still probably bang you, cfdagola. If you had of made a move, she would have ridden your actual ****, not your ego. LTR's mean nothing, emotion mean everything. It's just that most guys can't overpower the emotion of a LTR.
 

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Dalshtröm said:
So for woman and also for men, the reputation is the most important. Women will do anything to avoid the slut reputation and men will do anything to avoid the idiot, scumbag, douchbag, jerk and so on, because those people are not accepted by the society.
This was once true, but hasn't been for a very long time.

Modern women have too much power in society to care about their reputation anymore. The truth is.. women have never given a sh!t about their reputations --> They only behaved because they feared the consequences.

The consequences they feared have been neutralized in modern "girl power" society. The attractive women know they can suck a million c0cks and still get an AFC beta faggot to wife them up. In fact, its now the norm to be a slut in your 20's.

Once something becomes the norm.. its no longer damaging to your reputation. Most men today accept that virgin brides are a thing of the past and slut shaming results in more negative attention for the shamer than the slut.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
This was once true, but hasn't been for a very long time.

Modern women have too much power in society to care about their reputation anymore. The truth is.. women have never given a sh!t about their reputations --> They only behaved because they feared the consequences.

The consequences they feared have been neutralized in modern "girl power" society. The attractive women know they can suck a million c0cks and still get an AFC beta faggot to wife them up. In fact, its now the norm to be a slut in your 20's.

Once something becomes the norm.. its no longer damaging to your reputation. Most men today accept that virgin brides are a thing of the past and slut shaming results in more negative attention for the shamer than the slut.
Yes, you are right, in a way. In a way you are wrong. There are still continents like Asia that has still this influence. In fact, Asia is very slow; they are not very fast in anything. But as far as Europe and the west is concerned, slur has started to become the norm. It has become very attractive. Shows like jersey and Geordie shore succeedes.

Yes, deep down nobody cares what they are, the consequences are the only problem. So women avoid the reputation of being a slut because they will be very much condeminated and avoided. The same goes with jerks and douchebags.
 

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She would still probably bang you, cfdagola. If you had of made a move, she would have ridden your actual ****, not your ego. LTR's mean nothing, emotion mean everything. It's just that most guys can't overpower the emotion of a LTR.
i still talk to her. she texted me this morning saying how she had a dream about me and her running away from something and we were hiding behind trees.

that launched into some witty banter between me and her and she gave me 'last text' the end. as i said she's a pretty cool girl and makes my day go by faster because she's fun to joke around with.

she has yet to actually tell me herself she's engaged. i doubt she ever will. it'll be more of an unspoken thing i can already tell and that alone tells me all i need to know about her state of mind.

i've made subtle moves. like putting my arm around her etc. but understand this is an office and sexual harassment can be viewed as direct or indirect. so you have to play those cards real close to the chest. slapping a friends butt may get you some laughs between you and her. but another woman sees that may find it offensive and BAM you're finished.

so if a move on my part was to be made. it would have to be outside of work. in the parking lot.. etc.

ive been letting her do her thing with me though as far as communication because i've learned that women who are taken really need to make all the major moves anyway. a guy that TRIES to get a girl who's taken rarely wins. at least IMO.
 

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Nothing is a guarantee.
I agree simply with the Topic Title of Cfd's. His post shows no one is predictable and no one can be trusting completely. Just look at the woman in cfdagola's post. She was either a good actress or just didn't feel for the guy at all. People don't seem to understand that there will always be someone better than you: Someone smarter, beautiful, richer... But if you don't like what you already have, you put yourself in trouble without realizing it
 

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