"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you keep a notch spreadsheet? If you're going for numbers as I am, you may want to.

Here's an Excel-generated graph of my notches. I'm very excited that I'm approaching 50 notches. I completed by "40 by 40" goal two years early. Next goal is "75 by 50" so I have 11.5 years to get 28 or so more.



As you can see I got a pretty late start and didn't really even start going for numbers until the past couple of years. The summer of 2008 was a great time and I still have fond memories of those months. An LTR ended in spring of '08 and I went absolutely nuts with the sex. It wasn't surpassed until 4 years later.

This year has been my best year so far, the recent Tinder chick making it 10 new girls so far this year. This doesn't count my two LTRs and a returning chick ONS in January.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never said I was anything other than beta, my friends. Or that I was particularly good at getting broads. Or anything else. Every insult you care to throw has already been thrown by myself :)

And you think that's nerdy? I also have a record of how many lays it took to bang each chick, whether condoms were used, how long each relationship has lasted (in timeline form), etc. etc.

I am a big ol' nerd. I admit it. 148 IQ, motherf*ckers. And let me put it this way... if this beta nerd is running up on 50 lays... where are you? If this pathetic SOB banged his first Tinder girl a week after getting the app... where are you?
 
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It's posts like this that make me occasionally embarrassed to be a member of this site.

P.S. You're this guy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheCWord said:
It's posts like this that make me occasionally embarrassed to be a member of this site.
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Frankly you should be embarrassed all the time. I won't point you to the post I made a year or so ago about my "Relationship Timeline" then :nervous:

All my relationships. In overlapping graphical timeline format :crazy:

P.S. You're this guy.
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Interestingly, the comments below the article mostly criticized him for sharing his spreadsheet, not for making it.

EDIT:

Does anybody have a graphing utility that will give best-fit lines? Or does Excel have the capability of doing this?

EDIT 2:

Never mind, found it on Excel. Check this out, it appears my total lays are increasing at something of an exponential rate. Kind of interesting:



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Holy sh*t, if this is truly an exponential climb at y=e^.190x then I'll bang my 100th chick before I'm 44 and my 1000th chick before I'm 54. If I live a standard life I will bang 14,000 women. (Note that the X-axis is number of years since date of first lay, not my age) Check it:

 
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