"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not talking makes you creepy

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GloriouslyInsane said:
But don't forget the other end,the guy that won't shut up.Some silence here and there builds tension (if you have EC and BL that is).Mystery is all about wanting her to know more,you can talk all day and she would be intrigued or say nothing and read you like an open book.
either you talk too much or not enough at all. i feel like it talk too much at times and sometimes i feel like i dont talk at all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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being a silent type has its up's and down's

but everything is relative...you might be considered quiet compared to some guy who yaps all-day non-stop.

it's true ones who talk a lot tend to make more friends however this doesn't necessarily mean they're attracting girls, i know a lot of guys who talk a lot and they chat with many girls, but most of these girls see these guys as their 'little brother'

but you shouldn't be all silent and sit in the corner like some social-reject. you need to talk when needed but do not appear as a light-weight (who talks a lot and lacks masculinity)

its women's job to talk and men's job to show action

just a thought
 
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