I know that I like this girl. But we have seen each other so few times since meeting it's like starting over everytime. We hung out this past Saturday, she met me up with some of her friends at a live music venue to check out my brothers band. I enjoyed myself and her and I were talking and laughing. She was flirting with me, touching my arms and shoulders when she would speak. Everything went well, but I am not sure if I am reading too much into this or not. She did show up and I would think that if there was no interest on her part then she wouldn't have shown up. She definetly is the type of girl who injoys being pursued and doesn't chase guys. Well, I am use to girls giving me more to go on and I don't usually chase girls that often. She hasn't really given me anything to go on. The time before that we hung out at Jillians, which is kind of like a Dave & Busters; video games, restaraunts and stuff. We chilled drank a lil bit and talked but I got the impression she wasn't interested. I am not sure if asking her out is a good idea or not. I know for a fact she has a busy shedule during the week and does bar promoting on the weekends. But if she wants to hang out again then she will make time, right? Thoughts?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Not Sure...
- Thread starter CJC
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
CJC, you were with her on two dates, or you were with her in the "out", you know what I'm saying.. You don't escalate right away and you are thought of as a safe hang out buddy, a fiend..
Then, you change all of a sudden.. Show to her that you want to bone her, such as by asking her out.. Before you was quet and safe and now you are a friend and all of a sudden you want to fvck this girl..
What do you call this? Women call this Ewwwwwwwwwww... Disgusting.. Almost like your best friend George you hang out with every week, holds your hand, and says, I'm attracted to you dude, I think we should explore it..
How about you follow the routine:
Follow that link in my signature and start from basics.
Then, you change all of a sudden.. Show to her that you want to bone her, such as by asking her out.. Before you was quet and safe and now you are a friend and all of a sudden you want to fvck this girl..
What do you call this? Women call this Ewwwwwwwwwww... Disgusting.. Almost like your best friend George you hang out with every week, holds your hand, and says, I'm attracted to you dude, I think we should explore it..
How about you follow the routine:
A) Learn seduction.
B) Apply it on anyone you see, including her, her friends, and her mom.
B) Apply it on anyone you see, including her, her friends, and her mom.
Follow that link in my signature and start from basics.
Naw, we haven't had sex man. It's never gone that far. I mean I am pretty much asking if it's worth pursuing, am I putting too much into this or should I ask her out? I don't know about me being a safe hangout buddy either. There isn't much there but I would like to establish something.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I got your last e-mail man, I mis understood what you were trying to say. My bad man. Yeah, I don't think I was just with her in the out. But then again, she might have. Most of the girls that I talk to I have no interest in, I could care less if they think bad of me in any way and we always would end up fvcking. This chic was someone that I actually started to like so I didn't want to go that route with her.
She might be interested in you..
However you do not come across like you have a clue what you doing.. Thus, you have no skill to get her.. Thus no chance.. It is totally fixable, I already told you how..
I suggest you try to get her with whatever you have or you just remain friends with her.. Trying to get her will teach you some lessons and you will advance.. Being friend with her might get you other friends, on which you can try and become better.. Decide for yourself..
However you do not come across like you have a clue what you doing.. Thus, you have no skill to get her.. Thus no chance.. It is totally fixable, I already told you how..
I suggest you try to get her with whatever you have or you just remain friends with her.. Trying to get her will teach you some lessons and you will advance.. Being friend with her might get you other friends, on which you can try and become better.. Decide for yourself..
Monkey
Master Don Juan
Get her number - ask her out - check her response...
Hey Monkey,
Yeah I got her number but I am not into sitting on the phone for a long-ass time chit-chatting. I mean I mainly text or IM her. But if I do call her I usually keep it short. I guess the best thing to do is just ask her out to lunch or something chill this weekend or if anyone else has a suggestion, let me know.
Oh, something that has been on my mind is dealing the word "no." I have asked a girl before to go out and have been told no and I felt like an idiot and I was all quick to get off the phone with her. What's the best way to handle that. I don't want to seem too bothered by it ya know?
Yeah I got her number but I am not into sitting on the phone for a long-ass time chit-chatting. I mean I mainly text or IM her. But if I do call her I usually keep it short. I guess the best thing to do is just ask her out to lunch or something chill this weekend or if anyone else has a suggestion, let me know.
Oh, something that has been on my mind is dealing the word "no." I have asked a girl before to go out and have been told no and I felt like an idiot and I was all quick to get off the phone with her. What's the best way to handle that. I don't want to seem too bothered by it ya know?