"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Not ready" advice

StoneyRU

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Thanks for the advice. I definitely think i ended it with the upper hand and her not knowing whats up. She has to have an idea that i know but i want to keep it that way and move on. Honestly after reflecting on this all, she sucked anyways so i am glad i am getting out of this now.

BTW she was texting the new dude before we took the "break" so asking her to hang out is out of the picture. I'm moving on and not gonna keep any contact at all....thatd be pointless.

ALSO- went out this weekend and met a chick that was even hotter and cooler than this girl so that helps. We played pool all night and i was making her laugh. Gonna call her and ask to go out sometime this week. All is well.

I must say i am not very mad anymore that this all happened. I learned a lot from this, hope it will help someone else too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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