"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I started college in september. Joined a class of 30. I made friends with everyone and started hangin out with the cool guys in my class. All of them were like dominant, witty, well dressed, sort of players with IQ's of Gifted or Genius. (My IQ is Average)

The first few months were great for me seeing as we were all cool and I got respect from everyone. Everybody wanted to get to know me and I was cool with them all.

Eventually we started going out at night together and clubbing and having fun, they are mad for a laugh. I used to get drunk each time and go a little mental.
I did this a number of nights and everyone in the class lost respect for me. [He acts like a total fool when he's drunk - Whatever]

Now, they never miss out on all comedy shows, comedy cartoons and have loads of quotes from them and are constantly talking and joking about them and I feel sort of lost.
When I was respected, they would make sure that I understood what was going on.

I need to keep in with these class mates for my own Social Proof.

This sort of situation also happened with other gangs of people, It was cool for a while then things go down hill even without the drink issue.

I only found this site when the damage was done. I need to change my life. Probably become more social and alpha.

Can anyone help, thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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it happens to me everytime i join a new social circle, so i can't help you:(
 
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Its strange.. Why does it keep happening?

I want to be popular. I KNOW that i can do it but im not. Its seriously p*ssing me off!
 
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Make friends that can't handle their alcohol. Ya'll can get out of control together. That's what I did.
 
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Its easy to be nice to people but do you have to act like a jerk also?

I hear that girls always go for Alpha Males, If you arent an Alpha Male then the odds are totally against you :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nevermind.I never hung out with the genious type...kind of boring.


I wouldn't say you have to be a jerk. You just need to be yourself and don't take any sh1t. Don't let anybody walk over you, girl or guy.
 
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Problem solved thanks to the people of this site and the DJ Bible.

Best wishes,
Barry.
 
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And damn my IQ is 133 which is higher than average. Just did it at www.IQTest.com , for free [It emails score]
Doubting myself... :mad:

A normal brain put to work is the KEY
 
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just have one!

dude just have one beer an d act drunk! then you can control the situation! and you can get laid by really drunk girlss!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yah, the idea is not to get tanked... at least not before everyone else does. I don't drink much, only because I prefer to keep control of the situation.
 
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It is called respect and it is something you have to earn. You can't expect to be respected if you constantly keep up with the rest and try to conform to their humor and expectations.

Find something to distinguish yourself from the pack and act like you don't care if you fit in or not, in other words do your own thing. Respect is earned this way, and yeah it also helps if you don't go mental when you drink haha...

The worst thing you can be is the same as everybody else....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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