"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not Making Her Your World

justiceseeker

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I agree with a lot of the advice on this board, but sometimes I think we over analyze this stuff. Always trying to "control the frame" is great, but when the hell do you just have some fun and relax?

Girls want a guy who's fun.
Girls want a guy who doesn't discuss heavy topics all the time
Girls want a guy who keeps his word and doesn't take their shyt
Girls want a guy who makes decisions
Girls want a guy WHO DOESN'T MAKE THEM HIS WORLD.

It's so true. Women have a sixth sense that tells them when you don't like them as much as they like you, and this drives them wild. They absolutely adore guys who don't make them a priority. I know it's fvcked up, convoluted logic, but it's so true. I can't tell you how many times I've dated women, and while I liked them, I certainly had other things that I considered more important. I can't tell you how hard these women chased after me. On the other hand, I've had women that I almost obsessed about. I tried not to let on how into them I was, but they instinctively knew it and treated me like crap.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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Its kind of funny.

This one chick was telling me she loved how her fvck buddies basically treated her like a piece of meat and didn't want anything more to do with her after they were done.

She liked being used only for male gratification.

Tom Leykis is 110% right about the modern woman.

Pump em and dump em baby.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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justiceseeker said:
I agree with a lot of the advice on this board, but sometimes I think we over analyze this stuff. Always trying to "control the frame" is great, but when the hell do you just have some fun and relax?

Girls want a guy who's fun.
Girls want a guy who doesn't discuss heavy topics all the time
Girls want a guy who keeps his word and doesn't take their shyt
Girls want a guy who makes decisions
Girls want a guy WHO DOESN'T MAKE THEM HIS WORLD.

It's so true. Women have a sixth sense that tells them when you don't like them as much as they like you, and this drives them wild. They absolutely adore guys who don't make them a priority. I know it's fvcked up, convoluted logic, but it's so true. I can't tell you how many times I've dated women, and while I liked them, I certainly had other things that I considered more important. I can't tell you how hard these women chased after me. On the other hand, I've had women that I almost obsessed about. I tried not to let on how into them I was, but they instinctively knew it and treated me like crap.
While this is probably the most basic advice, it's also the best advice and people should review it often. Also, I find that it's best to "naturally" not make her your number 1 priority. I always valued my career most, right. So if I'm in a meeting and say I'll be home an hour, but the meeting runs late, I may be home in 2 hours without giving her a phone call. If she has a problem with me coming over late, "there's the door."

Now some guys just have no lives and they try to take this advice and "pretend" that the girl is not their true priority. Worry about your career guys.
 
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