"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey guys,

a few days ago I went to a gal I have been seeing for quite sometime and told her that I liked her. (I know I did wrong. Didnt read the bible then)

After few days she told me that she was not interested in me (cause I seemed like an easy catch to her - mayb)

Now I am planning to tell her that I am also not interested in her. I dunno what came to ma mind that day when I said that to you.

Cause I guess anything that can make her interested in me now would be to tell her that I am not interested.

How would u guys suggest me to approach this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BrotherAP

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I suggest you find someone new. Always remember how many other women there are out there. A girl can detect sincerity, and lying to her about liking her will come off as a desperate move to trick her into liking you - because that's all it is man.
 
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Originally posted by sony007
Now I am planning to tell her that I am also not interested in her. I dunno what came to ma mind that day when I said that to you.
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That is just pathetic. Just move on. ANYBODY could see through that shareade.
 
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Dont say anything to her. Dont talk to her (unless you have to), dont say hi to her. As far as you are concerned she does not exist any longer.

Take the lessons you learned with the girl that you are infatuated with and dont make the same mistake with the next girl you find interesting
 
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