"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"not in the mood"

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so im with my gf and we're starting to get pretty sexual in fact we start having sex and she's pretty wet whichs indicates she's having a good time. i start noticing it's harder for me to get her to reach an orgasm than usual, after a switch of positions to her riding me, she stops about 2 mins into it and says "im sorry i guess im not in the mood"

not sure why this is a concern, but does this sort of thing happen or is somehow the attraction fading? only ask because it's first time it's come up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cNfny said:
so im with my gf and we're starting to get pretty sexual in fact we start having sex and she's pretty wet whichs indicates she's having a good time. i start noticing it's harder for me to get her to reach an orgasm than usual, after a switch of positions to her riding me, she stops about 2 mins into it and says "im sorry i guess im not in the mood"

not sure why this is a concern, but does this sort of thing happen or is somehow the attraction fading? only ask because it's first time it's come up.
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You need to learn all about cunnilingus and introduce some "toys" into your relationship.
 
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Dude, there's a million books out their about spicing up the relationship in bed and it's pretty simple. You'll be fine.
 
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dude it sounds like she wants to break up with you or else is seeing another guy behind your back and is feeling guilty...
 
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music is important to getting girls in the mood or keeping them interested. Did you have anything on?

For me sex is always better having some tunes on, rather than having nothing or the tv on, which can seem uncomfortable or weird.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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200' of nylon rope, a jackhammer, 55 gallons of Vaseline, a midget, something that goes bump in the night, a box of cinnamon bears, a clown with a bright red nose and a 17" dildo.

Yep, that list should fix you right up.


On a more serious note:

It's really hard to tell, what you're describing could be anything from her trying to take the lead in the relationship to losing interest to you just getting lazy in bed. Is she eager to spend time with you outside sex? Does she follow your lead without a fight? What is the REST of your relationship like?

Or does she just want you to ride her like Secretariat?
 
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pingpongz said:
dude it sounds like she wants to break up with you or else is seeing another guy behind your back and is feeling guilty...
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Exactly^^^ ... She is not in the mood...... for you!

this is one of the main early signs of cheating that most men miss... by the time her sexual attraction is gone she has been long gone. So its time for you to go too.
 
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