Not Improving

[nesblu]

At this moment in my life, it seems to me that my social life has stopped improving and that I have lost much if not all of my social momentum. Everyday its the same routine, I talk to the same people, hang out with the same friends and do the same things. I haven't had a relationship for a year now (gr 11) because I haven't even met any girls I didn't know this year. It seems that I would need to do something drastic and out of my comfort zone to build the social momentum I am lacking.

What could I do to get my social life back on track?

 

[LearningSlowly]

That sucks dude. Well, let me tell you, it's certainly easier to keep the momentum up once you have it going.

You're going to have to work off a dead stand-still. That means initiating things entirely on your own. Gotta go out to clubs, they have under 18 ones where I live, don't know about you. Or you can do lots and lots of day game, whatever.

You never know what will set it off. Never meet people looking for them to bring you to parties, but it'll happen randomly. You may meet a cute girl at the mall, bring her to a school dance, make a good impression there, and get invited to a party the next weekend.

These things are random, so you gotta always be working hard to make good impressions on people.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

At this moment in my life, it seems to me that my social life has stopped improving and that I have lost much if not all of my social momentum. Everyday its the same routine, I talk to the same people, hang out with the same friends and do the same things. I haven't had a relationship for a year now (gr 11) because I haven't even met any girls I didn't know this year. It seems that I would need to do something drastic and out of my comfort zone to build the social momentum I am lacking.

What could I do to get my social life back on track?

Just break the pattern. I dont care what you do, just take control of your life and do majorly different things.