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Not Giving in to Girls Test

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so i knew of this girl for about a year through mutual friends. we talked sometimes on facebook and i got her number but that was all. she lives about 2 hours from where i am at for college, but only like 20 min from my hometown where i will be for the summer so im not really thinkin about her much now but figure she will be good to hook up with this summer.

so her and her friend were in town yesterday and they came by to see me. we chilled for awhile then went to bass pro shops to check out the one eyed alligator and the turtle orgies lol. i knew we needed to get out somewhere where we could have an "action date" type of experience, although this was very impromptu and not really a date. since it was storming and i didnt want to spend money this was about my only choice.

anyway at first they are both very shy. once we get out and moving around her IOIs are out the roof. NEVER have i met a girl and her IL be so high right off the bat..atleast not one im interested in. this girls a solid 7 pushing 8.

we was constantly touching me, grabbing my clothes, grabbing my waist. she would grab my hand when she wanted to go somewhere. when we were looking at animals her face was pretty much touching mine.

now i played my game pretty much seamlessly, so im not gonna go into that because im not looking for advice in that sense.

anyway, i know for a fact this girl likes jerks. her "about me" on facebook even said "i know i fall for jerks, i cant help it." so i played up the whole ****y funny thing.


so later that night she text me"did you have fun with me?" i replied "i had fun with the alligator gar." and proceeded to make some more fun of her.

today she texts me "so are you glad i came to see you?" i didnt reply because i just dont know what to say here. she keeps asking me this, but i dont want to lower her IL by telling her what a fun time i had.

how should i go about replying to these type of questions when she just keeps rewording them. im sure shes just testing me... what to do?

by the way this girl is 17 or 18..i dunno. a senior in high school.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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falconslax89

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cmon guys basically all i wanna know is what response to give a girl who constantly asks if you had fun with her or are glad she came to see you and not bring her IL down....
 

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What do you need us for? Keep doing what you're doing keep being c&f like you have! Remember the rule when it comes to tests. You have to do/say the opposite or something radically different than what you would normally say/do or what she wants you to say. So instead of saying "yeah I had fun" which is what she wants just say anything other than that.

hb: "so are you glad i came to see you?"
hero: maybe, if you had cooked something for me

Not falling for tests is just keeping b|tches on their toes.
 

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she was b1tching about my room being messy(i was doing laundry) so i told her "maybe, if you had cleaned my room"...got that b1tch, haha.
 

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falconslax89 said:
she was b1tching about my room being messy(i was doing laundry) so i told her "maybe, if you had cleaned my room"...got that b1tch, haha.
Ha! That's right brother that's exactly what i'm saying. Just say the opposite of what you would normally say/do or what she expects.

The only other advice I could give you is before you reply to her stuff analyze it and figure out what she is trying to say/what she wants you to say. I have gotten burned so many times for not thinking stuff over and doing things fast which is the way I am but with women you have to make every move your best possible move.

In this case she obviously wants to bring you down a bit and wants to see you say something like "i'm sorry about that i was busy i couldn't clean it up." She is trying to get you to make up an excuse and bring you down a notch. You on the other hand kept it cool, kept it c&f and turned it around ON HER!
 

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ha thanks man thats exactly the advice i was looking for. i knew what i needed to do just not how to do it in this situation.
 

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Ease said:
She wants you to ask her out.
ask her out as in...? ask her on a date..to be my girlfriend? im not following you.

she definitely wants my balls
 
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