not feeling this girl i liked in highschool anymore

[xectxny19x]

i knew this girl way back in highschool. we're in grad. school now.

in highschool, i remember i used to want this girl's attention. she's an easy hb9, if not a hb10 to me. very nice. very smart. very popular. everyone wanted her, but no one got her.

we'd go out often. she never flaked. i even met her parents and spent time at her place. then i just lost touch with her because i was busy with school, work and some other stuff. she would want to hang out, but i declined most of the time.

one day, i was thinking about her and so text her a quick "hello." she called back, & i thought about returning her call. she left a vm wanting to meet up and stuff, but i'm just not feeling anything for her anymore. i remember the last time we spent time with each other to catch up, i was simply "bored" being with her. i ended the date real early.

i'm not returning the call, because i just don't feel like chatting or meeting up with her. it's odd. she's a nice girl and hott, but i don't even want to be around her as friends. there's absolutely nothing there with this girl.

i used to want this girl so much back then. just wanted to share, since she just called.

anyone with similar experiences? let's hear it!

 

[WC2]

Yes?

All 3 of my ex-gfs from high school still contact me at least on a monthly basis. Besides the fact I've moved my standards way up, they just don't interest me anymore emotionally. I feel like I've stepped light years beyond their reach and they are just tiny fish in a sea of quality women.

You've moved on to higher expectations. That's a great thing. IMO, a vital aspect of a DJ is knowing when he needs it and when he doesn't. There could be a smoking hot girl that wants to chill, but if it doesn't satisfy you then what's the point? Recognition for banging a hot chick? You don't need it.

I find myself in the same position going out to the clubs around here all the time. My friends get googly eyed over blonde bombshells who hardly mumble a word to anyone. There's no fun in railing out a chick with no brain (well, most of the time).

I'd feel enlightened if I were you.

 

[Evolution]

yea there was this girl in HS i used to be all over, she was what i guess u might call a hb8 on this forum. But now, after a year of what I been through, she's not so special or hot anymore.

 

[Brandonc662]

Why the fvck did you bother to text her if you didn't even want to talk to her? That is just retarded!