"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not Feeling Strong Enough to Lift After Doing Cardio

Frank2500

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I'm starting to think perhaps it may be better to do cardio after lifting weights than the other way around. Most of the time, I don't feel strong enough to lift after I do cardio. This week was especially difficult because I live a generally very stressful life...commuting back and forth by train and bus to get around and walking for very long distances including putting in 22 hours a week at an institution where I'm taking a class. I used to do cardio before lifting because I used to be concerned that I could lose whatever muscle I may have built prior to that if I did it the other way around.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quagmire911

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Definitely do cardio after weights. Eat something high in protein inbetween as well.
 

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Re:

I appreciate your feedback, Quagmire. Thanks.
 

Quagmire911

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And try and do cardio in the morning on your non weights days if you can.
 
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