So I had my second making out session last weekend with this lady I met at my gym several months ago. I banged her hard and well, but for some reason I just couldn't ejaculate/jerk off. The first time we did it, I ejaculated toward the end. This time around I kept going and going...pounding and pounding and I did feel it almost coming but in the end it didn't. I'm not exactly sure what could have been the reason why. Perhaps I just wasn't relaxed enough?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
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When you find out the reason please tell me, I wish I could pound a girl like a jackhammer for a hour...awfully I have my c0ck hard all day and we I finally bang a girl its a struggle of will to make it last the minimum necessary.
Anyway wanking and watching porn could take some sensitivity away from your head so despite the erection you still have a retarded mental libido.
I dont think you were not relaxed, if that was the case you would have not being able to get an erection so fast.
It also depends how many times you do it, after the third time it takes me a lot of time to come despite the erection and the arousal.
Anyway wanking and watching porn could take some sensitivity away from your head so despite the erection you still have a retarded mental libido.
I dont think you were not relaxed, if that was the case you would have not being able to get an erection so fast.
It also depends how many times you do it, after the third time it takes me a lot of time to come despite the erection and the arousal.
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Well, the thing is...if you go too long without ejaculating and don't ejaculate at all, the women you're banging would start wondering if there's something wrong with you. It will then cease to become a pleasurable experience or something she looks forward to...and next thing you know, she'll begin to avoid you. It's a tough balancing act. Ejaculating too soon isn't any good and not ejaculating after having gone on for long isn't the best thing either. I think I went on pounding for at least a good 38-40 mins.
Well, the thing is...if you go too long without ejaculating and don't ejaculate at all, the women you're banging would start wondering if there's something wrong with you. It will then cease to become a pleasurable experience or something she looks forward to...and next thing you know, she'll begin to avoid you. It's a tough balancing act. Ejaculating too soon isn't any good and not ejaculating after having gone on for long isn't the best thing either. I think I went on pounding for at least a good 38-40 mins.
Scars
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Sadly, I have to agree with this. I'm a quick shooter (5 minutes into it or so), but I've mastered the art of staying hard and keep pumping. The second time around is always much longer, and feels better IMO. There was this one girl I was boning one time, and I came inside her but didn't say anything and just kept going, so I hammered away trying to go for number two.. and half way through it she stopped and asked me if I was gay. I looked at her and said 'What are you talking about?' and she asked me why I wasn't "done yet". Heh.Frank2500 said:
-Scars
Frank - I've had the same problem. The last few girls I've banged, I couldn't come the first time we did it. I think it had to do with being anxious. Then the next time I was able to get a nut.
What's funny is that when I'm pretty comfortable with a chick, I like to go for multiples. Like at least three times, right? Pumping for probably more than an hour total.
Scars - I remember being like that when I was in my late teens. I could nut 3-4-5 times without stopping. As I got older, I had to stop for a few minutes after each nut, but I developed a lot more staying power. I can still pound it out like a boss now, but it generally takes more mental effort to make myself relax to get that first nut.
Also, I've heard this has something to do with the pelvic floor muscles. If you're really tense, they tighten up so much that you can't even nut. Last time this happened to me, I had a horrible attack of prostatitis and was in a shitload of pain for about two months.
What's funny is that when I'm pretty comfortable with a chick, I like to go for multiples. Like at least three times, right? Pumping for probably more than an hour total.
Scars - I remember being like that when I was in my late teens. I could nut 3-4-5 times without stopping. As I got older, I had to stop for a few minutes after each nut, but I developed a lot more staying power. I can still pound it out like a boss now, but it generally takes more mental effort to make myself relax to get that first nut.
Also, I've heard this has something to do with the pelvic floor muscles. If you're really tense, they tighten up so much that you can't even nut. Last time this happened to me, I had a horrible attack of prostatitis and was in a shitload of pain for about two months.
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I have the same "problem" but Ive always seen it as a gift.Frank2500 said: