"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not being able to drink alcohol

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Due to being on anti-depressants, it is strongly advised one avoid all alchohol. Naturally, since alcohol is a depressant, it makes the depression worse.

Now, IMHO, bars/clubs are no fun unless you have a buzz on or if you love to dance (which I do not) Why else do people go to bars? To mainly get on a buzz and get that feeling of euphoria when socializing.

How many people here can honestly say they would still have a good time at a bar/club without a buzz...I sure could not, hence that is why I am sitting home New Years Eve.....besides I have to work tomorrow morning.

Happy New Year
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can have fun at a bar without drinking. I used to volunteer to be the designated driver all the time. I sing, so I go out to do karaoke sometimes and I don't drink. Sometimes it's really fun to watch drunk people when you're sober. Being in a bar sober when everyone else is drunk makes you see things you usually miss when you're drinking. It can be pretty fascinating and funny. :D
 
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You can have lots of fun when your sober by fvcking with, playing mind games, and watching drunk people.
 
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Going to a bar to mess with drunk people is like cheering at the Special Olympics. Despite the outcome, you're still basing your night on what retarded people do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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