Not as nice as you think..

[RustyRyann]

Any girl can be broken down. I've seen "nice" girls hit on a dude while their AFC boyfriend wast aware of what was going on. I've seen "nice" girls take their mom's car and get ****ed in the backseat. I've seen "nice" girls who study hard at school, break up with someone only to **** that dude's coworker. It sucks, I know. On the flipside, I've seen "bad *****es" kissing ass and competing over an average-looking dude. You stay cool, calm, and collected.. perfect. This is an inversely proportional situation. The MORE you are nice in terms of being a doormat, the LESS nice they're going to treat your relationship. Hate to say it but every girl's capable of being a slut. Even your "nice" sister studying at UCLA.

 

[Zion]

This is pretty much like saying any friend is just an enemy that has not yet stabbed you in the back.


Stop with the negativism. Ofcourse every girl is 'capable' of being a slut. Just as every human is 'capable' of being a serial killer. Anyone can take a knife and stab you repeatedly. Doesn't mean they will.



You're not 'not' nice for hitting on a dude while having a boyfriend and you're not a slut for taking your moms car to get some in the back seat.

Life is too complex to be so black or white.

Discussing such things is an exercise of futility. No 2 situations are ever the same and it always comes down to your own ability to calibrate life and take action accordingly.

 

[RustyRyann]

Zion, I agree with you a 100%! Of course life is too complex to be so black and white. Im not trying to be negative, but I am pointing out what's been observed. What I want people to recognize is that women are just as capable of doing what men would do in a heartbeat. And like you said, it's how one takes action accordingly. Hence, you have to keep the relationship interesting somehow. I didnt go into detail about the girl with the boyfriend too. There was a lot more going on then just flirting. I bring this up because I've been on both sides of the spectrum when it comes to girls, both the AFC and the guy who's stolen the girl. One of the biggest mistakes is putting a girl on a pedestal. Too many guys think that a girl would never do this or that when all it takes is the perfect storm. A bad day for her, you two fighting, her horny, whatever. A girl can be broken down. PERIOD. Not that it would happen for sure, but understand that if you're capable of doing naughty things, I can guarantee a girl can do so as well.

 

[Igetit!]

Any girl can be broken down. I've seen "nice" girls hit on a dude while their AFC boyfriend wast aware of what was going on. I've seen "nice" girls take their mom's car and get ****ed in the backseat. I've seen "nice" girls who study hard at school, break up with someone only to **** that dude's coworker. It sucks, I know. On the flipside, I've seen "bad *****es" kissing ass and competing over an average-looking dude. You stay cool, calm, and collected.. perfect. This is an inversely proportional situation. The MORE you are nice in terms of being a doormat, the LESS nice they're going to treat your relationship. Hate to say it but every girl's capable of being a slut. Even your "nice" sister studying at UCLA.

Heh,this reminds me of a thread I made a few years ago.......


http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=...2Iwz7GIHRU2QC_anY_V5brw&bvm=bv.44770516,d.b2I

 

[twentee]

this pov has been around for so long that shrinks have aname for it. it's called the 'Madonna-hoor complex". you want a hoor for most of the week, but every woman is still (somehow) supposed to be ALSO a madonna. it's childish crap.

 

[instantnoodles]

This is pretty much like saying any friend is just an enemy that has not yet stabbed you in the back.

Oh trust me. Some friends hug you while holding a knife at your spine.


On a lighter note, you have a nice simple, logical insight into this.