"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yomley

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Hi Im new here, been reading articles a bit and having some success that I'm going to keep going for. I don't want to say I have a 'problem', but I am just coming out of being an afc so I need some extra advice.

Im trying to create attraction with a 8.5 hb in one of my classes. The first thing she did with me was ask me for food/drinks at lunch etc, basically tried mooching off me like she does with everyone else. I haven't given her anything yet but i've talked with her a bit and made tons of eye contact. Other times shes just been pissed at me for not giving her anything to drink so it's been hot and cold, but i just shrug it off when she does that. Anyway I talked with her casually the other day in class and just explained that I never had any food to give her(apparently shes anemic, but she survived without my help) just so I wouldnt seem like too much of a ****

I want to know how to really get her to want me. I don't know if this mooching/hot and cold bit is a test but I think I handled it alright. Im not giving a F*ck but trying to show that I am interested in her. Im just looking for some reasurrance here lol, I know im new but this sites great so thanks in advance guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rhino

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Obviously, the idea is not to become a b**** and give her stuff whenever she asks for it. You're right there. Normally I would say however you can turn the situation into a joke of some kind should work in your favor, and to tease her. If she really is anemic and needs to eat because of that, drop the DJ stuff and give her some food because you're a good person.
 

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It seems like you care a little too much about the fact that you're not giving this girl your food that you paid for. I would be a little peeved that she would even ask me for something of mine like that, especially if she did it more than once. Of course, you can always have an out-there but sarcastic answer, like "f*** no girl, get your own". Believe it or not, that can work, the girls I give the least attention are often the ones that like me most.

But to "get" this girl...I don't know, personally I wouldn't bother if the only way you talked to her or met her was because she's being a mooch...
 

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Maintain idifference toward her and don't give her anything. Isolate her at some point, escalate sexually and then mount her.
 

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Do you want to be involved with someone who is using her good looks to mooch off other people?

(hint: the answer start's with an 'n'.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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