"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Non-Internet Women Are Less Picky?

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Had to keep the headline short, but I wanted to clarify it more. I have noticed most of the women that were attracted to me and that dated me....at least in the last few years...had very little online presence.

TWO of them had NO Internet access at home. Yeah, crazy right...that's like someone not having no running water in their homes pretty much. But they accessed it via at work (on lunch break) or local public library wifi.

I know of one guy that teased her about it relentlessly.

One of them have an OK cupid account, but she only access it, at the most, a couple times a month. (On her laptop at the library wifi)

One g/f, although she does have Internet access, barely uses Facebook. Most pics that come up of her being tagged by other friends in group photos. No selfies at all. She personally said she'd do without watching any kind of TV whatsoever...she lives in a rural area in the woods.

So it's interesting on what I can attract is based on the environment these women have put themselves in. The non-attention w**res pretty much.

Anyone ever noticed that you had better luck with women that weren't online much?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Great point. Another guy was talking about finding them at activities an attention ***** would not be at, such as a book store.
 

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Online is just an extra platform to find women. Mainly plates, not gfs.

They often feel entitled because of the abundance of men that will fvck anything that moves. 5's think they are 8's and so on.

Its delusional. Have fun with it. If you find a decent woman or two to hang out, great. Just dont have expectations.

I dont mess with attention wh0res that much at all. The ones that post selfies seeking 100 guys to like the pic, etc, are far more trouble than they are worth. If you do get one's attention, make your intention clear and then dont feed the attention they are seeking and become an orbiter. They can either equally pursue or let them continue to rule their online fb world lol.
 

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I live in a town where sometimes the ratio of females to men actually favor men.
If you're in the right place at the right time and are proficient at approaching it can be a dream
The only problem? most girls where I live prefer the country boy or frat boy look if that's not your style get in shape or find your own niche
 

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Hey Glass about OLD profiles do you even write anything about yourself? In the About me bs? Keep it short?
I struggle with this part because for some reason writing a bio of myself doesnt seem fckn natural lol
Go with just pictures?
I don't put too much info on there.

"Active, outdoorsy......you should like boating, sunshine and cold beverages on the weekends or we may not get along"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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