"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Non-female related question. Concerning my best male friend...

gimmeyofonenumba

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One of my best friends for the past few years. I feel is pretty much using me as of late. I constantly invite him out and he will decline. But will go hangout with others. And never invite me. We are both in serious relationships. We've been planning a trip for all for of us to go to europe. But Im realizing the only reason im going with him is because i have money while his other buddies do not. It sucks cause he was probably the closest friend I ever had and I'm supposed to be the best man at his wedding. But I seriously feel life would be perfectly fine if I was to just not be friends with him anymore.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lexington

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It happens man, people drift apart and they change. Time can weaken the bonds of friendship. Both of you have probably gone on somewhat divergent paths and I'm sure you're not the same people that you both were when you were the closest of friends.
 

Greasy Pig

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"Have no friends not equal to yourself".
I treated a good friend like that some years ago and he eventually got the sh1ts and ended the friendship.
Best wake-up call I've ever had. Maybe your friend needs to be told his behaviour is crappy?
 
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