"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No Time for Women?

OlympicTim

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Hey guys so this is a thing im sure some of you have encountered growing up. I don't plan on taking the university. Right now my plan is to play Jr Baseball ( 3 practises/dryland a night and games most weekends) as well as work full time (7-3:30)

Once the off season comes im going to take a 1 year college ticket for an appreteniceship as well as be trainging for baseball.

Finally im gonna start my appreteniceship play baseball and when im do my appreteniceship I plan to start my own business.

So I have a full load and very little time for my true friends let alone trying to meet new women.

Im sure some of you guys are busier than I will be so any advice on how to meet girls when I have very little free time everyday
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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skinnyguy

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Please for the love of god do not resort to OLD
 
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