"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Appreciate it fellas! Being single again feels weird after coming out of an LTR but im getting the hang of it again. Games gotta come back.

@wishyo, ya im bust until next thursday so ill hit her up on wednesday to see if she wants to go out or something. Well see.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ultra critique in your text game: I don't like the word "SHOULD" in that context. I've used it a thousand times myself, and it always seems to come from a level of weakness.....as in: I don't know if you want to, but I want you to come out and meet us.

It doesn't sound like it would be that way, but IME, when I try to get a chick to come out and meet me while using "SHOULD", they seem to always come back with a wishy washy response, as was in your case. Unless, of course, they're already full bore into me, then it doesn't matter what the fvck I say, but when they're on the fence, the "SHOULD" rarely seems to work.

Just sayin. *shrugs*
 

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JohnChops said:
Appreciate it fellas! Being single again feels weird after coming out of an LTR but im getting the hang of it again. Games gotta come back.

@wishyo, ya im bust until next thursday so ill hit her up on wednesday to see if she wants to go out or something. Well see.
keep us updated :) i would bet on success with your story in comparison to some dudes here who go wild texting in between dates or talking about their emotions towards a girl on a second date..
 

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wishyo said:
keep us updated :) i would bet on success with your story in comparison to some dudes here who go wild texting in between dates or talking about their emotions towards a girl on a second date..

I'm not a big texter anymore. I'm curious to see if I can rail this girl with as little communication as possible. She texted me last night and wanted to hangout but I had work at 430am so I didn't respond to her text and just went to sleep.
 
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