"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alittude

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In my area no one throws any parties and no one at school does either and it's really frustrating because parties are easy to meet and f*** girls on one night. Anyway I was thinking of throwing one myself but don't want my house to get trashed. Anyone go any advide? Thanks in advance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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immrtlwun

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Go for it, the best way to get something done is to do it yourself. It's inevitable that the house will get dirty, but unless there is a lot of alcohol involved, I don't think it should get trashed.

Good luck.
 

djaus111000

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as long asyou keep things under control from when you start inviting people your place wont get trashed, unless you invite people who dont like you.
 

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Or you could try and get a sucker to host it at his place..... then you can mess it up and leave before he needs help picking up the stuff... prefferably someone you dont like very much.
 

familyguyfan

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Outdoor parties are always fun. Go to a field, lake, woods, etc. and just throw a party out there. Make sure it's secluded though, because those get busted easier if there's lots of houses and other people around. Also, sometimes they're harder to run from. The last one I was at got busted. However, if you can find a good spot that has pretty much nothing around it, then you're good to go.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

MaeMan

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Im about the same age as you and the parties that my buddies throw are usually a good time. Usually like 50 people. Play music but not so incredible loud that you cant get away from it at some area of the house. Decorations really not necassary, but whatever you like. Just pick a date and time and get the word around. I went to a toga party about 2 months ago which was a blast and you didnt even feel like an idiot because every person had a toga on. Tell people to wear sandals bc getting your foot stepped on with shoes hurts when dancing. Good luck bro and party it up
 
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