Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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No More Fox Hunting For Me... for now at least

NoMoreAFC

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guys i decided not to worry about girls right now, i will focus on lifting weights, improve my body and mind, give more attention to myself and to my friends and family. i think i was becoming obsessed with the idea of not having a girl to like me.

i will prove to myself that i can in fact live without having them around. will i suceed ? i hope so.


i will not quit this board, on the contrary i will have more time to study it and learn more useful advices.


thanks for all your help guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so in other words you quit because you cant do it?
 

NoMoreAFC

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i dont consider it as quiting just a strategical retreat to improve myself and gain energies and more confidence. by taking the idea of needing to have a girl off my head i 'm sure it will be a lot easier to accomplish my other goals.the macking can wait, and when i return no one will stop me.
 

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I think it's sensible. You'll be so engrossed in other aspects of your life that you'll forget about girls and before you know it you've actually got them pursuiing you out of curiousity as to why you've seemingly not shown interest

I am an advocate of practice however. I would hate to blow it with a HB9 because she is being used to take my DJ skills on a trial run
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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