No Matter What Path You Choose, You Will Never Be FULLY Satisfied

[TheException]

An interesting thought I had when walking home from class today...

I find myself with a new girlfriend while being on a college campus and a find myself with an internal struggle. Im extremely happy with my gf, because her interest level is extremely high and she treats me good. She cooks for me, buys dinner, buys wine, fvcks me multiple times whenever I see her, etc. Its truly a great situation.....YET, I still find myself staring at young college broads and have that burning urge to just fvck them. It made me think and I think I have found the answer....will us red pill men, ever be truly 100% satisfied with women, no matter whether we choose to get a gf(get married) or stay single and play the field(including ONS)?

I think the answer is a strong...resonating...NO. Whenever I was single, I was always looking for that one plate that would make a good girlfriend. Now that I found her....I still want to bang as many chicks as possible, I urge for the variety. If I was my poor beta blue pill chump, I would be thrilled to be in the position I find myself...a girl whose hot, has sex with me on command, and treats me like a king. BUT I am not. Part of it, I think plays into the "We always want what we dont have" maxim, but I also think part of it is biology. Us men, really arent made to be monogomous....we all get the urges to plow as many attractive women as possible. On the flipside, I think as humans...we also want to emotionally connect to that one person of the opposite sex and have someone to share a family and intimate moments with. Its honestly the biggest Catch 22 of life if you ask me.

So what do we do about it?


NOTHING....thats right nothing. Reason being? I honestly dont care that much. I have come to the conclusion, that no matter what I decide to do in my life with women(relationship, single, fvck machine, etc) I will NEVER BE FULLY SATISFIED. I will just live each day as we go, and just accept the fact it will be this way. And I think the biggest piece to all of this is.....I DONT CARE IF I WONT BE FULLY SATISFIED BECAUSE ITS ABOUT WOMEN, WHICH SHOULD NEVER BE MY MAIN PRIORITY OR SOURCE OF JOY IN LIFE. Read it again....

My happiness and joy will never be solely depended upon the women in my life, therefore I will accept a certain amount of dissatisfaction. I will always strive for the best...and continue to demand I get respect and good behavior(along with sex) from women.

I will however, not allow dissatisfaction to infiltrate my career and life goals. YOU SHOULD NEVER ALLOW that in these areas, because THESE ARE YOU MAIN MISSIONS.

 

[BeDJ]

Men aren't made to be monogamous, correct. It's society that pushes it down our throats. Before, a LTR was everything I wanted. Having a girlfriend that loves me, cooks, cleans...soulmates. Been there, done that. Fun times, the tingling ups and devastating downs.

What your friends and family believe is that having a significant other to be happy. They look down on you for being single, whether you are happy or not, because that's what society's standards are. Remember being little and your family talks about weird Uncle Larry, the one that's never been married? They think there's something wrong with him because he is in his 40's and still single. They begin to discuss if he will ever find true love, instead of how solid his career is, how often he travels or his trips to Cancun. They shame him for not buying into the same agenda they have.

I could be more satisfied and happier in life, I know exactly what I need to do. I wish I could say success with women aren't in those plans, but I'd be kidding myself. However, monogamy is mutually exclusive from my satisfaction and happiness.

 

[zekko]

Nobody will ever be completely satisfied with their significant other, or in life in general.

The moment you are satisfied, is the moment you and your life start decaying.

This is true. I've noticed this in my interests and hobbies. Over the years I've accumulated a lot of interests. But the fact is, I don't have time to do all of them well. In fact, I don't even have time to do all of them at all.

They say if you want to become good at something, pick ONE thing and focus exclusively on it. This is what I found easier to do when I was younger, because my scope of interest was far more narrow. Now, there are a lot of different things that interest me. Point is, to excel at one thing, you have to give up something else.

Just like with women. Whichever path you go down, there's something you're giving up. And when I was working on my career, I temporarily gave up most of my social life to advance, because I didn't have time for anything else. You have to pick what is really important to you. Prioritize.

 

[skinnyguy]

The only time in life I have been fully satisfied is when I worked really hard to accomplish something and accomplished it. You'll never be fully satisfied with a woman even if she's Kate Upton because there is so much other p**** out there.

 

[TheException]

They say if you want to become good at something, pick ONE thing and focus exclusively on it. This is what I found easier to do when I was younger, because my scope of interest was far more narrow. Now, there are a lot of different things that interest me. Point is, to excel at one thing, you have to give up something else.

Truth^