"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No longer a Virgin, now a DJ!

silkkster

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well maybe not 100% dj but almost - haha -
i enjoyed my first time! it wasnt her first time, but i told her it was mine - i was all nervous, but after a while i was good 2 go! This was more of 'casual sex' - i told her i wasnt lookin for a relationship, neither was she...so onward -
we 'did the deed' for about 45min - she said i made her ***(femal orgasm) 2 times! the only thing is i didnt *** (ejaculate) - i felt like i was going to but didnt - dont know why, anyone else have this problem their first time? (or something similar)?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rex Man

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You were probably just thinking too much instead of enjoying yourself. Keep up the good work and it should eventually go away. Cheers, big pimpin man;)
 

Maximus_Decimus

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Originally posted by silkkster
well maybe not 100% dj but almost - haha -
i enjoyed my first time! it wasnt her first time, but i told her it was mine - i was all nervous, but after a while i was good 2 go! This was more of 'casual sex' - i told her i wasnt lookin for a relationship, neither was she...so onward -
we 'did the deed' for about 45min - she said i made her ***(femal orgasm) 2 times! the only thing is i didnt *** (ejaculate) - i felt like i was going to but didnt - dont know why, anyone else have this problem their first time? (or something similar)?
LOL, since when is a DJ defined as a man who is a virgin or not? Dude, I see lots of men who have lost their virginity but don't show any virtues of what we consider to be a DJ.

BTW, congratz on losing your virginity.

Maximus_Decimus
 

silkkster

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Re: Re: No longer a Virgin, now a DJ!

Originally posted by Maximus_Decimus
LOL, since when is a DJ defined as a man who is a virgin or not?
Maximus_Decimus
i ment like my skills have been honed enough to the point that this can happen..i guess..i dont know.. i completly see what your saying though - thx for the congrats..
 
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