No Contact EX GF 3 weeks

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I have been in no contact for 3 weeks already before I found your site. i wrote her a email letter asking to respect my decision for no contact. I told her to give herself a chance with new boyfriend. Recap of our history dated 3 months everyday. I believe she used me to get get co worker to leave his wife which he and they became an item. After becoming an item with this coworker she still came around saying she was confused and wanted to be sure what door to walk thru this guy or me. We had s-- a few times and said she had many memories and even went to places we had gone to relieve them. At this time I told her she should not use me to get this guy jealous in the email letter. I have not heard back from her since. I know she is not worth it why can't I forget her? She was only in my life three months.
This is day 23 of no contact on my part and she has not contacted me either. Just wondering is she full of it or what she got over me?

 

[randalll]

Sounds like you were quite into her. Need to get her out of your mind, man. Go meet some other women. And don't send her an email asking for no contact.

Just have no contact - ignore her.

 

[pdx1138]

good for you in figuring out no contact on your own, But....

NEVER show your cards to a girl the way you did, explaining to her what you're doing.

It never has helped anyone.

Best to just pull the plug and let her wonder about it.


Hang out with your friends and have a good time.
Check out other hotties when your out.

Do you have any hobbies from your past you were into?
get back to them.

get "busy" and that will get her out of your mind.

in 3-6 months you'll be laughing at all of this.

I and many others have been where you are now...it works.

 

[Albatross953]

Keep going brother, I am on day eleven of nc with the worst case of oneitis. Second time around on this girl, she makes me nuts. This time I even purposely gave her closure so the break would stick. Told her I love you, now get away from me.. got 3-4 other girls, and none of them mean anything. No going back.

stay strong

 

[Trump]

I have been in no contact for 3 weeks already before I found your site. i wrote her a email letter asking to respect my decision for no contact.

- You told her "no contact" so she does not contact you.
- then you contact her to tell her to respect your no contact?

Hmm....either I am missing something or you have to improve your negotiating skills.

 

[InnerHappiness]

Hmm....either I am missing something or you have to improve your negotiating skills.

Thanks for that.

Break-ups take time. Look back on what you did well and wrong during the relationship. Focus on yourself and continue to live well. Make her regret the next time you guys cross paths. Pass by her and say hi, productive revenge.

Being emotionally detached is EXTREMELY hard. We've all been there and came out of it alive. Hope to see you at the finish line!

 

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Day 30

Still in no contact with ex. Started dating everything ok. I received a call from her oldest son. he wanted to see how I was doing? I told him great and sounded happy. I am not going to call. I really do not want her in my life as a special person. I guess my ego just wants her to crack!

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

This girl has multiple children?? WTF!

Stop going no contact and just completely move on from this girl. Straight up!

 

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Got It

I have moved on just want to see her crack as stupid as it sounds.

 

[Purefilth]

I have moved on just want to see her crack as stupid as it sounds.

It doesnt sound stupid, its probably why many of us started the No Contact challenge. But its not what the challenge is about, sure its satisfying, but the best thing is to keep No contact wether she cracks or not.

Ive forgotten how many days NC I am, because it doesnt matter to me anymore, Im over it.:rockon:

Good luck

 

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Well yesterday ex called she heard I had been in a cycling accident. She wanted to know how I was doing? She cracked after 4 weeks of no contact. Told me what she had been up to sounded like she wanted to let me know she had been home and made no mention of co worker bf. I let her know I was fine and enjoying life having fundoing the things I enjoy partying, gym running a nd preparing for a marathon. She mentioned that her son in law had seen me and that i looked fit. I never mention her bf or how things where going between them. Before we hung up she said for me to stay in touch. I did not respond and hung up! It felt good to be in control of my life again and over her! A friend told me she had resurfaced again in her favorite spots which she had stopped frequenting.She has no cahnce with me as a couple. I want your comments on whether to let her become a booty call? My honest feelings about the booty call scenario is go for it but at the same time I feel it is better to just let go totally.

 

[Purefilth]

Well yesterday ex called she heard I had been in a cycling accident. She wanted to know how I was doing? She cracked after 4 weeks of no contact. Told me what she had been up to sounded like she wanted to let me know she had been home and made no mention of co worker bf. I let her know I was fine and enjoying life having fundoing the things I enjoy partying, gym running a nd preparing for a marathon. She mentioned that her son in law had seen me and that i looked fit. I never mention her bf or how things where going between them. Before we hung up she said for me to stay in touch. I did not respond and hung up! It felt good to be in control of my life again and over her! A friend told me she had resurfaced again in her favorite spots which she had stopped frequenting.She has no cahnce with me as a couple. I want your comments on whether to let her become a booty call? My honest feelings about the booty call scenario is go for it but at the same time I feel it is better to just let go totally.

Yes, let it go, be done with her, move on get your d1ck wet elsewhere.
Ex as a booty call does NOT end well. Trust me, ive been there, several times. It always seeme appealing and it took me till about the third time to realise i was being a tw@t.
Move on, youll be better for it in the long run.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

No on the booty call. It will drag you down.

Move on and find better women. It will lift you up.

 

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Thanks