"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I ended up hooking up with a girl last night whom based on the way our 1st date went would seem to be have low interest level.


I met her at a night venue.... traded texts although sometimes she'd answer late or not answer them. I would make a saracastic comment when she didn't answer my texts and then she would answer apologizing...

Well we met for coffee... could barely do any kino... I gave her a weak kiss close (a peck) and she sorta pulled away. I texted her at the end of the night saying she had beautiful eyes... she responded back with Thank you :)

I didn't follow up call her for a week. I basically nexted her as she didn't text me either...


I was bored and or drunk 2 weeks later so I texted her.. she responded.. then we texted a little back and forth. I asked her to meet again totally expecting rejection as I wanted to validate if this pattern means low IL

Well to my surprise she agreed..... long story short I got to 2nd base with her last night.

Moral of the story - Girls are weird....
 

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I would likely put it down to timing rather then girls being weird. Maybe she was feeling low and you were exactly what she needed at the time? Just speculation of course, but if you think the dates didn't go great then they probably didn't!

But timing plays a big role in all this kind of stuff. Sometimes fortune favours the bold....good work :)
 
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No.

The morale of the story is be BOLD. Keep the idle text messaging to a minimal and always have a purpose when communicating with her. That purpose is to set up a meet up with her.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So last week I met up with the same girl again... she asked that I come by her house and that we'd go out for coffee. Then she said her parents wanted to meet me... so I went in her house and was really polite greeting each one with respect. I then went to a local starbucks with her and we talked... then they were closing so we walked around the block... there were people outside so I didn't want to over do it.. I did some light kino touching her shoulders.... this girl actually has a curfew though! lol... or at least she seemed to be concerned with not getting home too late that night.. I dunno

But I ended up pulling in front of her house... and giving her a kiss (not as intense as the last time.. since her parents or neighbors could have seen) She said to let her know when I got home.. I texted her when I did and she said "it was good to see you!" I replied "you too, hope to see you again soon"

I never got a response.... Well I was drunk Friday night so I texted her heeey she didn't respond at all... so the next day I was like "wow ok" and she didn't respond at all

So I sent her a text tonight "I guess your parents didn't like my clothes lol"

I don't expect a response.....

So either her parents didn't like something about me... or I should have been more intense with hooking up with her... I just figured since I met her parents and was in front of her house I should be respectful...

Thoughts?

btw this is typical bull **** I deal with when dating girls..
 
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