"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Night Driving Warning

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There are cells in your eyes which control melatonin production - ipRGCs.
ipRGCs sense light --> send signal to brain --> brain controls melatonin. Penal gland produces melatonin for sleep.

Remember those annoying police lights.

During night driving, people with LED lights, people with bad throw, trucks, SUVs, lifted rides -- people with illegal headlights -- overload your visual sensory system. ipRGCs get overloaded due to very bright lights. When ipRGCs detect strong light, they send a "daytime" signal. Melatonin production drops, cortisol rises, alertness should increase.

But, there is a twist. You are already tired, and your visual system is already strained. Instead of waking you up, the sudden melatonin suppression creates a confused state. You're not fully wake, and not fully asleep, attention flickers, focus collapses.

You drive, and all of a sudden you feel like you ****ing going to fall asleep. You loose focus of the road. You don't drive straight. You can't control this state.

Because your visual cortex gets overwhelmed. Micro-sleep kicks in. Half a second, up to 3 seconds, you're out. This is beyond your control.

A) You will get this when driving nights.
B) Assume other people are in this state while driving at night.


To prevent this, wear sunglasses. Driving glasses might or might not help, depending on quality. Sunglasses are guaranteed help. Driving glasses are only good with clear lenses.


Now back to police lights. They are developed on the above science and they are designed to disorient you by overloading your visual senses. Why they so bright? So that you get stunned and your reaction slows.

That highway and city out there, with illegal LEDs, hat's like a lot of police cars.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There are cells in your eyes which control melatonin production - ipRGCs.
ipRGCs sense light --> send signal to brain --> brain controls melatonin. Penal gland produces melatonin for sleep.

Remember those annoying police lights.

During night driving, people with LED lights, people with bad throw, trucks, SUVs, lifted rides -- people with illegal headlights -- overload your visual sensory system. ipRGCs get overloaded due to very bright lights. When ipRGCs detect strong light, they send a "daytime" signal. Melatonin production drops, cortisol rises, alertness should increase.

But, there is a twist. You are already tired, and your visual system is already strained. Instead of waking you up, the sudden melatonin suppression creates a confused state. You're not fully wake, and not fully asleep, attention flickers, focus collapses.

You drive, and all of a sudden you feel like you ****ing going to fall asleep. You loose focus of the road. You don't drive straight. You can't control this state.

Because your visual cortex gets overwhelmed. Micro-sleep kicks in. Half a second, up to 3 seconds, you're out. This is beyond your control.

A) You will get this when driving nights.
B) Assume other people are in this state while driving at night.


To prevent this, wear sunglasses. Driving glasses might or might not help, depending on quality. Sunglasses are guaranteed help. Driving glasses are only good with clear lenses.


Now back to police lights. They are developed on the above science and they are designed to disorient you by overloading your visual senses. Why they so bright? So that you get stunned and your reaction slows.

That highway and city out there, with illegal LEDs, hat's like a lot of police cars.
I’m gonna try the sunglasses advise. I can’t wait to be driving again on US soil.
 

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You gotta wear them pre-emptively. If your eyes are already ****ed up at night, and you putting glasses on, it's too late.
 
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