You’ve done everything you can do to prepare. You’ve read the bible; you’ve developed your own sense of being. You dressed the part and now you’re at the club on the dance floor. You have to be very confident to pull this off.
Make your rounds in a casual fashion, stopping for a moment to dance with a few girls on the sides. You’ll know at this point if you can pull it off, if you get any strange reaction, it isn’t working for you. If she pulls you in and starts freaking you…well you did something right. Don’t invite them to the floor just dance with them for a bit and leave. On the leaving note indicate that you’ll be around or you may be back later.
Girls in a group that are blocking your way is a great opportunity to squeeze by, and maybe they will want to dance with you. Now you’re out on the floor with a group of girls, maybe it is a group that you met on the sidelines; maybe it is a new group.
Dance with all of them if you so choose. When and if one or more reach out and touches your chest or grabs you, don’t react too much to it. Act almost as if it is nothing, implicitly saying that you need to do more than that to get me going babe. You’ll find they get more and more aggressive. If the person touching you is the one you want react, but if it is not then don’t react, just let her do what she will to you and teasingly push her away. You may find that her friends start to do the same, and before you know it everyone wants you. Feel free to excuse yourself for a bit to do the same thing again (make the rounds).
You have now set yourself up as the ultimate prize in the club, all of the ladies want you but some of them may not even know why. This friend is creating social proof for you at the clubs. To pull this off you really need to feel comfortable in the clubs already, this is not a newbie tactic. In fact it is not uncommon for another guy to be close by and the girls tell you he is a freak, or a pain or whatever. You need to know how you are being seen in their eyes, and if it is in a positive way then you pretty much have your ticket.
Make your rounds in a casual fashion, stopping for a moment to dance with a few girls on the sides. You’ll know at this point if you can pull it off, if you get any strange reaction, it isn’t working for you. If she pulls you in and starts freaking you…well you did something right. Don’t invite them to the floor just dance with them for a bit and leave. On the leaving note indicate that you’ll be around or you may be back later.
Girls in a group that are blocking your way is a great opportunity to squeeze by, and maybe they will want to dance with you. Now you’re out on the floor with a group of girls, maybe it is a group that you met on the sidelines; maybe it is a new group.
Dance with all of them if you so choose. When and if one or more reach out and touches your chest or grabs you, don’t react too much to it. Act almost as if it is nothing, implicitly saying that you need to do more than that to get me going babe. You’ll find they get more and more aggressive. If the person touching you is the one you want react, but if it is not then don’t react, just let her do what she will to you and teasingly push her away. You may find that her friends start to do the same, and before you know it everyone wants you. Feel free to excuse yourself for a bit to do the same thing again (make the rounds).
You have now set yourself up as the ultimate prize in the club, all of the ladies want you but some of them may not even know why. This friend is creating social proof for you at the clubs. To pull this off you really need to feel comfortable in the clubs already, this is not a newbie tactic. In fact it is not uncommon for another guy to be close by and the girls tell you he is a freak, or a pain or whatever. You need to know how you are being seen in their eyes, and if it is in a positive way then you pretty much have your ticket.