"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
niceguy(friend david) or the @$$h0le jerk.(her ex)
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
David would love a chance but i'm in no rush to be with anyone anymore. I'm tired of being hurt diamond. I'm tired of this! I'm so scarred I won't be with another man for a long time. I'm going to practive being alone and try to heal from this. David is a good person. He told him "Where is your integrity, your honor, dude you have issues and need to put your big boy pants on and grow up. Dn't slam her to me, i'm her friend always will be. Now I see she made the right choice killing that bs she had with you, you're a total moron". I felt vindicated by his defense. He told him "She's a great woman, you blew it!
there's your proof that this dum hoe doesn't want to date a guy like David. the poor shlub is so far in the friend zone he will never see the light of day. on the other hand, this stupid girl wants everyone to believe she's going to take her time, not rush into anything, and carefully select the next @$$hole she bangs. meanwhile poor old David sits on the sidelines playing pocket pool and will defend this *****s honor til the death. i swear, sluts, they'll never change.haha
there's your proof that this dum hoe doesn't want to date a guy like David. the poor shlub is so far in the friend zone he will never see the light of day. on the other hand, this stupid girl wants everyone to believe she's going to take her time, not rush into anything, and carefully select the next @$$hole she bangs. meanwhile poor old David sits on the sidelines playing pocket pool and will defend this *****s honor til the death. i swear, sluts, they'll never change.haha
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Don Juan
Classic ********.Robert28 said:
what her ex said on facebook hurts her, bet she can't believe it's true that he's done with her ass. I bet if he never says anything to her again, she'll go running back to him to figure out what the deal. Of course she won't post it to tell the world like she did there.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Smh. I remember when I used to be a nice guy. To this day, I'm still dumbfounded at that. But we need Nice Guys in the world, considering there's enough competition already. Why do we need anymore? 