"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NFL playoffs revised

What team do you want to make it this weekend?

  • Go Broncos

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • You rock Steelers

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Redskins all the way

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Yeah Bears

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • GO panthers

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Patriots for four

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Seahawks Rule

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • Gotta go with the steelers

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    7
  • Poll closed .

wavejams007

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Extremely sorry about this. Nothing against any of these teams.

Again, what do you think of these teams?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Extremely sorry about this. Nothing against any of these teams.

Again, what do you think of these teams?
dont do drugs
 

cactus3178

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Pats, baby!!


Halftime now, and they're a damn TD behind :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I hope the Broncos win, but the Pats were just screwing up too much at the end of the half.
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
Pats, baby!!


Halftime now, and they're a damn TD behind :(
Pats are done for...maybe next season.:cool:
 

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Bears vs Panthers!
Predictions?
All I know is the Bears have the number one Defence...
AND That the Hawks (GO HAWKS!!!:cheer: ) Play the winner for a superbowl spot...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wrath of a woman

Colts CB injured in domestic dispute

NFL.com wire reports

INDIANAPOLIS (Jan. 14, 2006) -- Indianapolis Colts cornerback Nick Harper's wife was jailed on charges of cutting him with a knife, a sheriff said.

Hamilton County Sheriff Doug Carter said Daniell Harper, 31, was being held without bond on charges of battery with a deadly weapon and criminal recklessness.

Nick Harper was treated for a knee injury at St. Vincent Hospital in Indianapolis. His injuries were not life-threatening, Carter said.

Harper, a starter, was listed as questionable for an AFC divisional playoff game against Pittsburgh to be held Jan. 15.

Earlier, Colts spokesman Craig Kelley said Harper had required stitches in his knee following an "accident." He said he had no other details.

Kelley told The Associated Press later that he had gotten his information from Colts officials.

"There was not an accident," Carter said. He said Harper and his wife had been involved in a fight.

Harper, 31, was arrested in June on a domestic battery charge after police said he hit his wife.
 
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