"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KillShot

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Hey guys, quick break down. Met girl at my bbq, she put her number in my phone. waited several days started texting, her responses were almost 8 hours long to reply but all seemed very intrigued, asking me lots of questions, laughing, etc.

Then I text her answering about 3 questions she asked me via text and no response and this was on a Wednesday.

Fast foward to the Friday immediately after and me, her and the friend (female) with whom I met her with are hanging out at a bar. She is very receptive in person asking me a lot of questions, asking where I live and etc. Then we are ready to leave friends house we walk out together and I said we should hang out, she goes I have every Thursday off, I go cool how about this Thursday. she says yes. she also apologized and said she is a terrible texter.

Now I haven't been needy at all giving it a I don't give an F attitude, making it seem like I am the prize, and not texting her back if I don't get an immediate response.

Only kicker is she has been single for about a month from her boyfriend of 3 years. We have a TON in common and love being outdoors so we actually made plans to kayak.

Anybody have any suggestions on how to win over a girl recently broken up? I am not expecting to score but always go in with a winning attitude. Worse case this will be lessons learned/practice for me. I understand the whole being ****y and funny via text and am working on it. but any pointers would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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apprenticedj

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One month out of a three year relationship usually means she just wants casual fun, not looking to jump back in to anything. Just keep it casual as you've been doing.

Go for the bang quickly, don't try to romance her or show that you're "different". She likely doesn't care at this point.
 
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