"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Newbie with dilemma

Cartman008

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Try for short and sweet...just broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 yrs. Her best qualities, GREAT sexual partner and GREAT cook. Im just having insecurities of her relationships with her ex husbands. Do not believe anything sexual with them but still does things for them that I ask not to. Question being, do I suck it up just to enjoy the sex and the food or do I just move on and hope the next one or ones will have the same qualities?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reykhel

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The only thing we ever need so to speak from a woman is what's between her legs. A DJ with an abundance mentality knows that more pvssy is in easy reach. A DJ spinning plates would not be having these insecurities.

If you can make a list of things that you need or admire from a woman I would suggest that these are things that you are missing from your own personality....go work on filling in these gaps.

How good of a cook are you? Become a better cook than she is. A great sexual partner? She's only great because YOU are great. See the way I reframed that for you.

You nexted for a reason. Fvck her and her ex. Seek plates or stay free for a bit. It's either zero or TWO.
 

Harry Wilmington

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If she has kids with these ex-husbands, no biggie. If she doesn't, stay away, stay faaaaaar away. And actually - my friend has a girlfriend, and recently hooked up with his ex-wife while he was out of town. Soooo....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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