Hey guys, I'm just looking for a little advice about a specific incident (I've had a serious, sexual relationship before, so I'm not completely inexperienced).
I'm a college freshmen, and have recently met a pretty attractive girl. Cute, shy, asian chick who I met through another guy who likes her. Anyways, after we (myself, some friends, and her) played some games, monopoly, card games, etc. we were going to Wendy's for an 11 PM snack, and she didn't want to come along, and went back to her room.
Later that evening, we chat on facebook, and she claims she was afraid I might be a reckless driver (she later fessed it was just that Wendy's was unhealthy and she was tired). Anyways, playing along with her joke, I ask her how I could prove I'm not a reckless driver, and she said I should shave my hair off.
Now, I have pretty good hair for a guy. It's a little long (above shoulders), but it's well maintained, dark, straight, and is usually something I am complimented for from both genders. Playing along with this shaving thing, we continue talking about my hair. She eventually says I should shave it off because it's girlish, but then proceeds to say that it's quite "luscious and makes me want to run my fingers through it".
As the conversation progressed, she continued alternating between saying my hair is girlish, but then admitted she was jealous of it, saying that my hair is "tempting" to people, and hers was nothing like it...
I tried to assure her that her hair is just as good ("hey, your hair is pretty great too, silly"), but I'm not sure how she perceived that. She also told me to get a moehawk and dye it later on (I assume this was a joke). The hair conversation ended the note that my hair is fine, and is like my "signature".
Later on, the conversation ended up hitting a snag when I commented on how we have a long weekend up ahead, and asked how she was intending to spend it, where she said mostly sleeping and studying, then noted it was 2 AM and had to sleep, saying we'd talk later.
So, I'm kind of confused. Do you think she possibly finds me attractive? Or is she messing with me/saying nonsense to write me off? In person she's pretty shy, and doesn't talk unless spoken to. I've had a couple direct dialogues, small talk but the group setting doesn't allow for it too much. She makes significant eye contact with me though. I often catch her looking in my direction, and I often look at her. She has called out one other fellow for staring at her, she's never done that to me.
Bulletin Point Summary
- Cute girl tells me to shave hair since it's girlish
- Cute girl then tells me my hair is "luscious" "tempting" and "makes me want to run my fingers through it"
- Cute girl then tells me to get a moehawk and dye it.
- Cute girl eventually says hair is fine, and is like my "signature"
- We make plenty of eye contact, she has called other guys out for staring at her, not me though
Is she just messing with me, or what? You guys think I should try to spend some more time and explore this potential relationship, or move on?
(Just to clarify, I have zero intention to shave my hair off, or turn it into a mohawk. I might get it cut a couple inches, but I was considering this before I even met her)
I'm a college freshmen, and have recently met a pretty attractive girl. Cute, shy, asian chick who I met through another guy who likes her. Anyways, after we (myself, some friends, and her) played some games, monopoly, card games, etc. we were going to Wendy's for an 11 PM snack, and she didn't want to come along, and went back to her room.
Later that evening, we chat on facebook, and she claims she was afraid I might be a reckless driver (she later fessed it was just that Wendy's was unhealthy and she was tired). Anyways, playing along with her joke, I ask her how I could prove I'm not a reckless driver, and she said I should shave my hair off.
Now, I have pretty good hair for a guy. It's a little long (above shoulders), but it's well maintained, dark, straight, and is usually something I am complimented for from both genders. Playing along with this shaving thing, we continue talking about my hair. She eventually says I should shave it off because it's girlish, but then proceeds to say that it's quite "luscious and makes me want to run my fingers through it".
As the conversation progressed, she continued alternating between saying my hair is girlish, but then admitted she was jealous of it, saying that my hair is "tempting" to people, and hers was nothing like it...
I tried to assure her that her hair is just as good ("hey, your hair is pretty great too, silly"), but I'm not sure how she perceived that. She also told me to get a moehawk and dye it later on (I assume this was a joke). The hair conversation ended the note that my hair is fine, and is like my "signature".
Later on, the conversation ended up hitting a snag when I commented on how we have a long weekend up ahead, and asked how she was intending to spend it, where she said mostly sleeping and studying, then noted it was 2 AM and had to sleep, saying we'd talk later.
So, I'm kind of confused. Do you think she possibly finds me attractive? Or is she messing with me/saying nonsense to write me off? In person she's pretty shy, and doesn't talk unless spoken to. I've had a couple direct dialogues, small talk but the group setting doesn't allow for it too much. She makes significant eye contact with me though. I often catch her looking in my direction, and I often look at her. She has called out one other fellow for staring at her, she's never done that to me.
Bulletin Point Summary
- Cute girl tells me to shave hair since it's girlish
- Cute girl then tells me my hair is "luscious" "tempting" and "makes me want to run my fingers through it"
- Cute girl then tells me to get a moehawk and dye it.
- Cute girl eventually says hair is fine, and is like my "signature"
- We make plenty of eye contact, she has called other guys out for staring at her, not me though
Is she just messing with me, or what? You guys think I should try to spend some more time and explore this potential relationship, or move on?
(Just to clarify, I have zero intention to shave my hair off, or turn it into a mohawk. I might get it cut a couple inches, but I was considering this before I even met her)