"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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New York - what gives?

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"Water, water everywhere, but not a drop to drink."

Does anyone else feel this way when it comes to Manhattan? It seems as if New York city has the hottest girls on the planet, and almost all of them are unapproachable.

Me and my friends have had little to zero success with women in New York, and when we aren't in NY it seems like woman are just fish in a barrel. There is no romance, and the PDA's you see are usually by older couples who look extremely superficial.

I have lived in multiple cities in the states as well as in foreign countries and I find that there really is "no love in the heart of the city," as Jay-Z would put it.

Any opinionos?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what do you call unapproachable women? usually this is better as it shows more confidence.
 
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You mean the city of lesbians Manhattan?
 
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LOL @ city of lesbians.

You know, ever since I decided to move to manhattan, I was thinking about turning lesbian, not because the women are hot but it seems like every hot guy I see is gay.
 
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WTF are you talking about? unapproachable? No woman is unapproachable.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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