"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New to workout.., help don't know where to start

MadaMadaDame

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I'm 20 years old, never really gone to the gym seriously. I am not a tall guy, around 5'4 only. Currently am 145 lbs with an flabby stomach ( lol someone must be laughing already). But the good part is, when with clothes i don't really look very fat. I have small bones ( thin bones or whatever you call it.)

Ok enough background of my current physics. :D

Can anybody tell me how to start shaping up? Do i got with a diet? i don't know anything really about diets. Don't know how to count calories etc.

As for gym, what do i start with? Cardio or go straight with lifting.. i think the sticky about guide to bulking or cutting up won't apply to me yet, since im totally in "no shape" at all.. and i consider myself a weak guy.

I want to change, i know height won't change anymore, but i believe my structure would change. Any help please.. Kinda desperate here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lifeforce

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Both guides apply to you, go read them and apply and you'll look good. Congratulations on deciding to change and good luck.
 

Heizen

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Originally posted by MadaMadaDame
I'm 20 years old, never really gone to the gym seriously. I am not a tall guy, around 5'4 only. Currently am 145 lbs with an flabby stomach ( lol someone must be laughing already). But the good part is, when with clothes i don't really look very fat. I have small bones ( thin bones or whatever you call it.)

Ok enough background of my current physics. :D

Can anybody tell me how to start shaping up? Do i got with a diet? i don't know anything really about diets. Don't know how to count calories etc.

As for gym, what do i start with? Cardio or go straight with lifting.. i think the sticky about guide to bulking or cutting up won't apply to me yet, since im totally in "no shape" at all.. and i consider myself a weak guy.

I want to change, i know height won't change anymore, but i believe my structure would change. Any help please.. Kinda desperate here.
Well, you do fit in. You are flabby, as you put it, so you should probably *cut* the weight down some ;)

Read both guides, cutting and bulking, and go from there.
 

hcaz074

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To find good workouts you could either get a session or 2 with a personal trainer( some gyms offer these free to new members) or you could look good workouts up on bodybuilding.com. I also recommend that site for any questions those guys and girls are very knowledgeable about working out.
 
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