"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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New plate ... Valentine day And vacations !

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yoyoing

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I am seing this new girl and we really hit it off well. We have been seing eachother for a month and a half and we have been on 5-6 dates with amazing sex.

I am going on a vacation for close to 2 weeks down in Cuba. I am thinking of going almost ghost for the entire vacation but I am wondering if I should do something for valentine day like sending flowers etc ...

I am on the fence about it because we have not been on that many dates but thing escalated very quickly and it feels like I know her for longer.

Anyways is it lame to send something at this point ?!
Should I at least call her up .

My instincts tell me to just go ghost but I don't want to look like I am ****ing a bunch of other women and cometly don't care about her loll
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nah man skip the V-day BS... it's just a day about consumerism..

if she gets angry afterwards you can always make it up. Get her emotions Cooking and Boiling.

but hey that's just my $0.02, Others may have more valuable advice.

Goodluck
 
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