So I am 35 I have had a crush on one of my classmates since she got married. I saw her for the first time Nov 1st 2013 last time I saw her was 1996. I have always thought about her and she is now available, moved back to town, she still looks a solid 8(my opinion) she is getting divorced with 2 kids 16 and 14. So I saw her at a Halloween party I was sitting at a table and she came over and gave me a hug and seemed excited to see me, she was there with someone else and she probably spent 70% of the time with me, she told me she felt comfortable sitting next to me. I ended up driving her home we kissed gave her my number and did not hear from her for 2 weeks..
So Wednesday the 13th I was walking my dog and saw her brother and dad and started talking to them a few minutes later she showed up and looked surprised to see me. I said hello and I started to think great she didn't call because she did not want anything to do with me and now here I am. So she started asking me about my dog and her dad and brother walked away, So I said to myself just asked what happened, so I did and she told me that she texted me that night and the next day and that she thought I never responded because I was not impressed with her. So we exchanged numbers again and she said she had the wrong number.
So we talked a bit more and I left, next day i sent her a text she replied and i ended up at her house watching a movie, we kissed I left.
So here is the tricky part my good friend asked her out to a fundraiser and I was also invited, I was there she showed up and we started talking then she started talking to my friend which at that time I decided to leave and visit the local water hole. She texted me and asked where I was told her where and asked her if she wanted to join me and she never replied. So I decided to drive home and about the time I got home she texted me and said she was home and if I was still out the bar which I replied no, So I asked her if I could invite myself over and she said yes.
So I called my friend and asked him how things went for him that night and he told me that he took her home and they kissed and that was it. So at that time I started to second guess my self on not telling him about her and I kissing the night before and that I just had invited myself to her place. So my other head made the decision to go for it and see her we started kissing and tried removing her shirt when she told me that she did not know what she was doing and to stop because she has never had another companion besides her ex. I asked her if she was OK me kissing you and she said that she was ok with me kissing her. So we kissed and hung out longer then went home. Didn't see her yesterday but we talked and she said that I make her laugh a lot and that her dad thinks that I am such a good "kid".
I know long story..
I asked her if she took a cab home, and she replied me with something else.
1)So should I tell my friend about her and I?
2)I feel like she is trying to play both of us but my friend told that she has never invited him over to her house.
3)Should I tell her that my friend told me that he drove her home and they kissed? remember guys I have always liked this girl and I want to play it right but I will not let her **** me over.
4)I have never been involved with anyone with kids before, how do you deal with it?
I feel like I am over studying my moves because I never thought she would ever come along.
Lets hear your suggestions
So Wednesday the 13th I was walking my dog and saw her brother and dad and started talking to them a few minutes later she showed up and looked surprised to see me. I said hello and I started to think great she didn't call because she did not want anything to do with me and now here I am. So she started asking me about my dog and her dad and brother walked away, So I said to myself just asked what happened, so I did and she told me that she texted me that night and the next day and that she thought I never responded because I was not impressed with her. So we exchanged numbers again and she said she had the wrong number.
So we talked a bit more and I left, next day i sent her a text she replied and i ended up at her house watching a movie, we kissed I left.
So here is the tricky part my good friend asked her out to a fundraiser and I was also invited, I was there she showed up and we started talking then she started talking to my friend which at that time I decided to leave and visit the local water hole. She texted me and asked where I was told her where and asked her if she wanted to join me and she never replied. So I decided to drive home and about the time I got home she texted me and said she was home and if I was still out the bar which I replied no, So I asked her if I could invite myself over and she said yes.
So I called my friend and asked him how things went for him that night and he told me that he took her home and they kissed and that was it. So at that time I started to second guess my self on not telling him about her and I kissing the night before and that I just had invited myself to her place. So my other head made the decision to go for it and see her we started kissing and tried removing her shirt when she told me that she did not know what she was doing and to stop because she has never had another companion besides her ex. I asked her if she was OK me kissing you and she said that she was ok with me kissing her. So we kissed and hung out longer then went home. Didn't see her yesterday but we talked and she said that I make her laugh a lot and that her dad thinks that I am such a good "kid".
I know long story..
I asked her if she took a cab home, and she replied me with something else.
1)So should I tell my friend about her and I?
2)I feel like she is trying to play both of us but my friend told that she has never invited him over to her house.
3)Should I tell her that my friend told me that he drove her home and they kissed? remember guys I have always liked this girl and I want to play it right but I will not let her **** me over.
4)I have never been involved with anyone with kids before, how do you deal with it?
I feel like I am over studying my moves because I never thought she would ever come along.
Lets hear your suggestions
