New little tactic I tried out.

[Scars]

After some small talk with a girl on facebook, I ran the whole "Well, I'm getting off of here for now. Here's my number." thing on her. I made sure to dip out when the conversation was at it's peak of course. She texted me right away.

Told her, I have a lot of "Her Name's" in my phone so I gave her a "cute little nickname to distinguish her from the rest". She bit onto that hook hard. Gave it awhile and she ended up messaging me twice about it. Told her "It's not even really a nickname, I just put a heart next to your name. But once you told me etc.. I had to go back and add another one." Etc.. being something she told me earlier in our conversation that I completely approved of, and let her knew that. Now, it's become a game of how many hearts she can win. Completely turned the tables and have her qualifying herself to me now. She's also suddenly posting about this "mystery man" that she suddenly has a fancy for. I think I rose her IL tremendously with this technique. Got her number now, going to try and schedule a meet up fairly soon. I will update you all.

-Scars

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

It seems a little bit friendly to me. If you just ask her for her number I think its sets the right tone.

 

[Jariel]

Nice! I use a similar style when chatting up women online and often when she says something I approve of I'll tell her she earns a tick. I also use it as a way to neg hit her, so if she mentions being a bit OCD, watching tacky TV or being a fan of a boyband, I'll tell her I'm putting an X next to her name.

Sounds like you're having fun and that really counts for a lot. It lightens the mood, makes her feel more comfortable with you and makes talking to each other enjoyable. Sure beats the old interview style conversations..."what do you do?" "Do you have any brothers and sisters?" etc etc.

The fact that she's posting about a mystery man is always a great sign! Keep it up mate.